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Would you guys give your significant other your credit card to test her loyalty?

Driftking102

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Poppy fields Established Member

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After spending all his money

 

Word!!!!!!!

ltjg45 Established Member

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Initially, she has to be drop-dead gorgeous if she things she will get access to my credit cards any sooner than 5-6 months in a relationship.

 

And, even then, I'm still stubborn in that regard. Once I get myself out of this financial mess I'm in, I will have a hard time trusting anything with my money, male or female.

SmileFace Established Member

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Yup! All fifty dollars of it.

I am going to be serious but this thread makes no sense.

 

What is he testing?

 

To see if she tries to buy crack with it or something?

I don't get it.

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Poppy fields Established Member

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I am going to be serious but this thread makes no sense.

 

What is he testing?

 

To see if she tries to buy crack with it or something?

I don't get it.

 

From what I have been able to dechiper, he is testing her loyalty and trustworthiness in a most unconventional manner.

Mme. Chaucer Established Member

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Initially, she has to be drop-dead gorgeous if she things she will get access to my credit cards any sooner than 5-6 months in a relationship.

 

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OH. MY. GOD.

 

Are you serious.

 

If someone's gorgeous enough, you'll give her your credit card sooner than if she's not quite so gorgeous?

 

You are in for a lot of fleecings and zero real love in your life, my boy.

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SmileFace Established Member

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OH. MY. GOD.

 

Are you serious.

 

If someone's gorgeous enough, you'll give her your credit card sooner than if she's not quite so gorgeous?

 

You are in for a lot of fleecings and zero real love in your life, my boy.

In his imagination.

 

He will have to get somone who is.... yeah we get where I am going with this.

Art_Critic Established Member

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My SO only takes cash :laugh:

 

A trust test such as this isn't going to tell you anything, a person using your CC responsibly can still break your heart.

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Poppy fields Established Member

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My SO only takes cash :laugh:

 

A trust test such as this isn't going to tell you anything, a person using your CC responsibly can still break your heart.

 

It tells you the tester needs to have his credentials checked.

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ltjg45 Established Member

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OH. MY. GOD.

 

Are you serious.

 

If someone's gorgeous enough, you'll give her your credit card sooner than if she's not quite so gorgeous?

 

You are in for a lot of fleecings and zero real love in your life, my boy.

 

I take it you didn't read the rest of the post right?

 

Not like it matters.

 

I don't know how long it will take before my 3k in debt is cleared up.

carhill Established Member

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No I wouldn't. Trust is built in other ways.

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gaius Established Member

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It's a little weird to just hand the person you're dating the credit card for no apparent reason. Likely to give her the impression you want her to use it. I needed my girlfriend to help me purchase something one time when I was traveling so she probably still has my number but that was incident specific.

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Driftking102 Established Member

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Thanks for all the responses. I dont think its crazy to test someone if they test you all the time.

ltjg45 Established Member

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Thanks for all the responses. I dont think its crazy to test someone if they test you all the time.

 

There is no need to test anyone.

 

Either you like him/her or you don't. If you don't like him/her, then leave and let him/her find someone else.

 

Simple. Stop making it so complicated.

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carhill Established Member

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I dont think its crazy to test someone if they test you all the time.

 

That's a canary in my book. Be watchful.

Poppy fields Established Member

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Thanks for all the responses. I dont think its crazy to test someone if they test you all the time.

 

Now I just must know what other tests you have to take.

SmileFace Established Member

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I gave my credit card to a girl because it was part of a fetish called "financial slavery"

 

I was blinded folded in the mall while she would make purchases and I had no idea how much she was spending.

 

That was such a turnon

I am not going to lie - I didn't expect this from you.

Woggle Established Member

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Some of you wouldn't know a healthy relationship if it fell on your lap.

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SmileFace Established Member

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That fetish became too expensive so I had to stop LOL

It kind of makes sense in a way.

Since you will freak if a women even asked what you do to try and decipher how much you may make but yet... oh jeezz

 

Philly you are a character .

miss_jaclynrae Established Member

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Not only does that sound ridiculous to me... but what is the point?

 

 

 

If I was dating someone and they gave me their credit card I would ask them WTF? and then hand it back.

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ses Established Member

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WTF are you thinking?! I sincerely believe that testing someone only exacerbates your own insecurities. It reflects badly on you, not on your partner. Where are the boundaries in the relationship? Trust should already be at the foundation. My boyfriend would be immediately dumped if he pulled these shenanigans on me. Actually I'd be pissed if anyone tried to test my loyalty and trust. Game over.

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runningfar Established Member

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I don't believe you should test.

 

And this is not a good test anyhow.

I am a stranger on the Internet and if you handed me your credit card, I would not take it and run up your balance. I have no dedication to you and it wouldn't mean I felt obligated to you or telling you the truth in any way.

The kind of person who would... Well, you should be able to root them out without this test.

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I wonder if she will give you her credit card to see if she can trust you....:eek:

 

Are you to say that a credit card with a low credit line is better than she may already have and that by her ringing up a 100.00 dress on your card instead of hers that it would show how deviant of a person she is ?

TheGuard13 Established Member

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This is the stupidest thing I've ever heard.

 

"Testing" people is idiotic.

BetheButterfly Established Member

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I'm probably gonna be totally yelled at for doing this on this forum. Would you give your girlfriend or significant other your credit card in order to develop a sense of trust in your relationship? I'm young so I have plenty of time to pay it off if she totally screws me. I wanted to test her and give her my card which doesn't have a very high balance on it and I never give her money at all. We already trust each other a lot but I wanted to do an ultimate test tonight by giving her my card. Money comes and goes to me but having a person who loves you and trusts you is far more important. What do u guys think?

 

What in the world? :confused:

 

If a guy gave me his credit card, I'd hand it back to him and tell him, "No thanks."

 

I don't need any man's credit card lol. My husband and I work hard for our living expenses and we share our money. It's not a test. It's real life!

 

My husband and I currently don't have credit cards and don't want them. Credit cards = scheme to motivate people to buy more than they can afford = not wise.

 

I know from experience, and I wish I didn't get a credit card when I was in my 20s!!! Not good. I'm so glad I don't have any now!!!

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BetheButterfly Established Member

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That fetish became too expensive so I had to stop LOL

:eek::laugh:

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