cdt76 Posted April 10, 2013 Posted April 10, 2013 Ok. So I created an online profile on a dating site a few weeks ago. Started talking to a girl who was VERY reserved with information about herself other than to say that she was on there because she wanted her ex boyfriend to know she knew he was cheating. Red Flag number one. Continued talking and found out she is going to be a doctor at a local hospital. I have a pharmacist friend there she knew. Small world. Met up the other night but only because he was there and she didn't feel safe meeting me by myself. Red flag number 2 because I"m a federal freaking agent and she knows that. Had a great time, dropped her off at home. Texted her on the way home and said I liked her and would like to see her again. She texted back saying she isn't ready to date yet. Ok. Fine. I disappear. She texts me the next day after not hearing from me that I must be angry. I said, I'm not angry. Some girls like boys like me, some girls don't. I'll keep looking. Then she says she would like to keep seeing me to get to know me but she thinks I am wanting too much too fast. I told her, I would like another date but I wasn't asking for her hand in marriage or to move in with me. Just to see her again. She said too much pressure and she can't handle the pressure. Red flag number 3 (freaking really:?) She keeps texting me with small talk and other crap. So I was practicing piano tonight and I recorded a Christmas song that I finally was able to master (I"m a beginner and not very good) and I sent it to her saying I was no piano man but I this is for you. She writes this back: "I don't know what you're doing. I think you're just playing games." I was like .....SAY WHAT? I said, no I played that and it was me. She wrote back "No. You'll say anything. You don't mean what you say. Then you try to charm me by playing music." Ok. I have no idea what she is talking about and this is a woman who is going to be looked to, to heal people! I can't win. I might officially give up!
Poppy fields Posted April 10, 2013 Posted April 10, 2013 Maybe she doesn't like Christmas songs. Or is Jewish and thought you were ****ings with her. Or maybe she is crazy. Next.
dasein Posted April 10, 2013 Posted April 10, 2013 Well you are going to be NAWALTED to death in a minute, if the thread isn't deleted outright, so choose a better thread title next time. This experience you are describing is what happens when you date the recently single. When they tell you they aren't ready, just take them at their word and immediate NC. Good luck going forward. P.S. I'm a guy, but someone being a federal agent would make me -more- cautious about meeting, not less.
StanMusial Posted April 10, 2013 Posted April 10, 2013 ... I"m a federal freaking agent and she knows that.... Send her a text and tell her if she doesn't leave you alone you will send Homeland Security to waterboard her @ss and ship her off to Guantanamo Bay. 4
Treasa Posted April 11, 2013 Posted April 11, 2013 Well, as long as she's good at healing people and doesn't try to date anyone she's working on....all should be ok? Yeah, she sounds psycho. She is not representative of all of us. I don't think I would have done any of those things, except maybe the meeting up with the mutual friend. Maybe.
outsidethebox Posted April 11, 2013 Posted April 11, 2013 I guess just be thankful that she hasn't called you cowardly... yet.
ChessPieceFace Posted April 11, 2013 Posted April 11, 2013 This girl in question is distrustful, suspicious, petty and childish. A lot of girls are some of those things but most aren't all of them. It's a silly generalization to make. 2
candie13 Posted April 11, 2013 Posted April 11, 2013 Your main learning should be to not wait for red flag number 3 or 15, but freakin' leave after red flag no 1, because there are some pretty f*cked up people there, and if you stick around, you'll only begin to discover just how disturbed! You seem be be persistent and attracted only to girls with problems... that's your problem. Like dating you with a guy who knows you? and you agreed and went ahead with this? Man, no way you're a federal agent, sorry! 1
candie13 Posted April 11, 2013 Posted April 11, 2013 This girl in question is distrustful, suspicious, petty and childish. A lot of girls are some of those things but most aren't all of them. It's a silly generalization to make. funny to hear you speak of generalizations !
Citizen Erased Posted April 11, 2013 Posted April 11, 2013 No, posting a thread called all women are crazy on a pink forum called loveshack and clearly populated with women is crazy. 1
ChessPieceFace Posted April 11, 2013 Posted April 11, 2013 funny to hear you speak of generalizations ! It would be an incorrect generalization to generalize that all generalizations are false. Some generalizations are true, some aren't. Obviously any generalization based on ONE PERSON is silly.
Anela Posted April 11, 2013 Posted April 11, 2013 Yeah, we're all looney tunes. Why you want to date any of us is beyond me.
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