pushforward Posted April 10, 2013 Posted April 10, 2013 Long story short, dated officially for a year. She dumped me be alone. I suspect she wants to date other people as I am her second relationship. She is attractive and has never been single. Her first relationship was 7 years and we were talking/dating for 6 months before she committed to me. After our breakup I went straight NC. Deleted her off of FB and all mutual friends. I blocked her number so she won't have the opportunity to hurt me again. I've been NC for a month now but I'm struggling with my pain. I gave my all to this girl and she just threw me away. I'm cycling through all stages of grief except bargaining. I did nothing wrong in our relationship and I was a damn good boyfriend. I can't help but feel miserable about the ending and what could of been. I just don't know what to do. I've been going out, traveling, talking to everyone who will hear me out. I don't want to get back with her but I do want her to hurt over me. She walked away so easily and I feel like garbage. What sound advice do you have for me?
Author pushforward Posted April 11, 2013 Author Posted April 11, 2013 I can't help but feel angry then sad. I'm just tired of feeling helpless about this whole situation. I want nothing more for me to be happy and her to be happy.
mtnbiker3000 Posted April 11, 2013 Posted April 11, 2013 I feel your pain. I am all over the board with emotions. Just want it to stop...
Damaged23 Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 Its natural. It's only been a month, and like many friends have told me, it gets harder before it gets easier. Hang in there, let time work its magic. You'll see how one of these days you will feel great, then maybe the next day you'll feel like poop again, but then it'll pass and eventually you will feel amazing, and realize your better off without this person. At the end of this journey you will be a stronger person!!
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