youngnlove89 Posted April 10, 2013 Posted April 10, 2013 Ignore the bitter troll ladies, she is probably in dire need of her purple spiky dildo that ran out of battery! Let's get back to happiness! Where were we? 2
Author Sheilalou008 Posted April 10, 2013 Author Posted April 10, 2013 I think unhappy people who feel stuck don't like seeing other people who are happy and strong enough to do for themselves. If that isn't the truth, I don't know what is. I have a few people in my life who love to plant the seed of doubt and misery. It is very unbecoming and almost always backfires. 1
Leegh Posted April 10, 2013 Posted April 10, 2013 There are many advantages to being single. I am not dating anyone now, and I like it. I don't have to wear make-up, or wear uncomfortable clothes, or buy skin creams, etc., in other words, I don't care what I look like, and it is refreshing. With my last boyfriend, I could not stand the noise he made when he ate. We would sit in front of the tv and eat and the way he ate drove me crazy. I never told him, but I always left the room for some excuse. I think it's easier for men to be in relationships than women, because even for a woman to go out on a date, it takes a tremendous amount of energy; washing and setting hair, make-up, picking out clothes, etc. I have been "in love" several times in my life and now I like being "out of love". 1
Author Sheilalou008 Posted April 10, 2013 Author Posted April 10, 2013 Ignore the bitter troll ladies, she is probably in dire need of her purple spiky dildo that ran out of battery! Let's get back to happiness! Where were we? We are happy to be single, enjoying life and want to tell strangers all about it! I gave up on batteries a long time ago. I got one that plugs straight into the wall. Best purchase ever 1
reaver Posted April 10, 2013 Posted April 10, 2013 No, I like this thread. Its good to have some positivity. Relationships are great but theyre a bonus in my opinion. Meaning its nice to have one but if you dont youre okay. Im a pretty independent person. I have alot of hobbies and girlfriends. So I like being single. I get why other people wouldnt though. It is nice to be able to be a flirt. Haha, I just introduced my married female friend to a vibrator last night because shes never had an orgasm!!! I was mindblown 1
Author Sheilalou008 Posted April 10, 2013 Author Posted April 10, 2013 There are many advantages to being single. I am not dating anyone now, and I like it. I don't have to wear make-up, or wear uncomfortable clothes, or buy skin creams, etc., in other words, I don't care what I look like, and it is refreshing. With my last boyfriend, I could not stand the noise he made when he ate. We would sit in front of the tv and eat and the way he ate drove me crazy. I never told him, but I always left the room for some excuse. I think it's easier for men to be in relationships than women, because even for a woman to go out on a date, it takes a tremendous amount of energy; washing and setting hair, make-up, picking out clothes, etc. I have been "in love" several times in my life and now I like being "out of love". I love not having to shave either. I still like to look pretty but if I don't have to, no pressure to. 1
Treasa Posted April 10, 2013 Posted April 10, 2013 There are many advantages to being single. I am not dating anyone now, and I like it. I don't have to wear make-up, or wear uncomfortable clothes, or buy skin creams, etc., in other words, I don't care what I look like, and it is refreshing. With my last boyfriend, I could not stand the noise he made when he ate. We would sit in front of the tv and eat and the way he ate drove me crazy. I never told him, but I always left the room for some excuse. I think it's easier for men to be in relationships than women, because even for a woman to go out on a date, it takes a tremendous amount of energy; washing and setting hair, make-up, picking out clothes, etc. I have been "in love" several times in my life and now I like being "out of love". I'm in love with myself. There are a LOT of advantages to this: 1. I never lie to myself. 2. I am never unfaithful to myself. 3. I don't care if I'm wearing makeup or not. 4. Best sex ever. It's almost like I'm PSYCHIC, and I don't have to tell someone how to pleasure me the most. I also don't have to lie about it, or put up with every single guy who insists that HE actually gave his exes orgasms, and that despite being told that girls lie to protect their egos, HE is actually amazing at sex/oral (LOL). 5. I never do anything that annoys myself. 6. I am educated and financially independent. 7. I'm the perfect age for myself. 8. When I die, I won't be leaving myself behind. 9. No annoying in-laws to put up with! 10. If I want to go see this movie or go to that restaurant, the answer is ALWAYS yes. I could go on. 4
Author Sheilalou008 Posted April 10, 2013 Author Posted April 10, 2013 No, I like this thread. Its good to have some positivity. Relationships are great but theyre a bonus in my opinion. Meaning its nice to have one but if you dont youre okay. Im a pretty independent person. I have alot of hobbies and girlfriends. So I like being single. I get why other people wouldnt though. It is nice to be able to be a flirt. Haha, I just introduced my married female friend to a vibrator last night because shes never had an orgasm!!! I was mindblown I have a married friend as well who never has had an orgasm. I don't get it! How do you know what to have some do if you have no idea yourself? I see nothing wrong with being happy and positive. I am not all sunshine and rainbows all the time but I enjoy the happy moments I have.
Treasa Posted April 10, 2013 Posted April 10, 2013 No, I like this thread. Its good to have some positivity. Relationships are great but theyre a bonus in my opinion. Meaning its nice to have one but if you dont youre okay. Im a pretty independent person. I have alot of hobbies and girlfriends. So I like being single. I get why other people wouldnt though. It is nice to be able to be a flirt. Haha, I just introduced my married female friend to a vibrator last night because shes never had an orgasm!!! I was mindblown <----will respond when she's picked her jaw up off the ground 1
Author Sheilalou008 Posted April 10, 2013 Author Posted April 10, 2013 I'm in love with myself. There are a LOT of advantages to this: 1. I never lie to myself. 2. I am never unfaithful to myself. 3. I don't care if I'm wearing makeup or not. 4. Best sex ever. It's almost like I'm PSYCHIC, and I don't have to tell someone how to pleasure me the most. I also don't have to lie about it, or put up with every single guy who insists that HE actually gave his exes orgasms, and that despite being told that girls lie to protect their egos, HE is actually amazing at sex/oral (LOL). 5. I never do anything that annoys myself. 6. I am educated and financially independent. 7. I'm the perfect age for myself. 8. When I die, I won't be leaving myself behind. 9. No annoying in-laws to put up with! 10. If I want to go see this movie or go to that restaurant, the answer is ALWAYS yes. I could go on. Nothing is sexier than a woman who knows and loves herself. I wish I could like this post a 1000 times. 2
Jethro Posted April 10, 2013 Posted April 10, 2013 When I first split up from my wife, I really missed being in a relationship, missed having someone to come home to, having someone to eat dinner with, but now it's great. I think it took a long time for me to actually know that there was nothing expected from me. I was stuck in the mindset of being in a relationship. Even 4 or 5 months after breaking up, I still felt a little odd about making plans with people, like I had to get back to them because I need to check with the wife if I will be free. But now I have a whole summer full of plans and activities and it's pretty awesome to do whatever I want! 1
reaver Posted April 10, 2013 Posted April 10, 2013 I'm in love with myself. There are a LOT of advantages to this: 1. I never lie to myself. 2. I am never unfaithful to myself. 3. I don't care if I'm wearing makeup or not. 4. Best sex ever. It's almost like I'm PSYCHIC, and I don't have to tell someone how to pleasure me the most. I also don't have to lie about it, or put up with every single guy who insists that HE actually gave his exes orgasms, and that despite being told that girls lie to protect their egos, HE is actually amazing at sex/oral (LOL). 5. I never do anything that annoys myself. 6. I am educated and financially independent. 7. I'm the perfect age for myself. 8. When I die, I won't be leaving myself behind. 9. No annoying in-laws to put up with! 10. If I want to go see this movie or go to that restaurant, the answer is ALWAYS yes. I could go on. Now I want to marry YOU
Treasa Posted April 10, 2013 Posted April 10, 2013 Now I want to marry YOU Hey, I swing both ways, and I even put the toilet seat back down and can change a tire and all that fun stuff. 2
Author Sheilalou008 Posted April 10, 2013 Author Posted April 10, 2013 I really enjoy this forum. Lots of activity and what seem to be great people. Thanks for all the support and great conversation. 1
Author Sheilalou008 Posted April 10, 2013 Author Posted April 10, 2013 Hey, I swing both ways, and I even put the toilet seat back down and can change a tire and all that fun stuff. I think I have a crush on you 1
Treasa Posted April 10, 2013 Posted April 10, 2013 Wow, this went from the "I'm happy being single" to the "Lesbian bow chicka wow wow" thread really fast. Not that I am complaining. 1
Author Sheilalou008 Posted April 10, 2013 Author Posted April 10, 2013 Not to try and pimp myself out here. On Monday nights from 8-10pm EST, a bunch of friends and myself do a web show. We talk about all kind of topics...news, sex, relationships, politics. undertheskin.tv It is by far my favorite thing to do while being single. It is another form of therapy for me. I get to have some drinks and shoot the **** with my good friends. 1
Author Sheilalou008 Posted April 10, 2013 Author Posted April 10, 2013 Wow, this went from the "I'm happy being single" to the "Lesbian bow chicka wow wow" thread really fast. Not that I am complaining. I am open to anything. I haven't been with a woman in a long time and I certainly miss it. The smooth skin, the yummy smells and tastes... Oh man, I may have to go plug in 2
clia Posted April 10, 2013 Posted April 10, 2013 I absolutely love being single. I'm in a relationship now, but I struggle with relationships because I really almost prefer being single at this point in my life. It's so nice to just be able to do whatever I want every day without having to worry about what someone else is planning or what commitments they've made or what expectations they have for the day. I love being able to do whatever I want after work -- if I feel like shopping or meeting up for drinks with a friend, or going to the movies -- I just go do it and I don't have to tell anyone or consider when I will have time to see them. I don't have to feel pressured to call someone or text someone or respond to their calls or texts right away. I don't have to shave my legs every day in the winter. (This is huge.) I can do what I want on the holidays and don't have to deal with another person's family. Every decision I make is for me -- if I wanted, I could move to another city or country or quit my job and go back to school or do anything -- and I don't have to worry about how or if it might affect another person. I know that I don't have to worry about being on the hook for someone else's financial irresponsibility or other screw ups that could lead to financial effects on me. I'm only responsible for me. I can buy $700 shoes without having to watch some guy's eyes bulging out of his head and telling me I'm a crazy person to spend so much on shoes. I also had the best time picking out and buying the perfect condo for myself, and redecorating all the bathrooms and buying new furniture, so everything is my taste and exactly how I want it. Being single is great. I have no idea why so many people are afraid of it. 4
Treasa Posted April 10, 2013 Posted April 10, 2013 As I get older, the more I prefer female companionship. Especially if the females are like me. You guys get me. Also, there is something to be said about the feminine touch, not to get too wrapped up in the lesbian thing. Whenever I get a massage by a female massage therapist, there's something softer and more nurturing in the touch than when I get one from a male massage therapist. Ok, now I really want a massage. 1
Author Sheilalou008 Posted April 10, 2013 Author Posted April 10, 2013 As I get older, the more I prefer female companionship. Especially if the females are like me. You guys get me. Also, there is something to be said about the feminine touch, not to get too wrapped up in the lesbian thing. Whenever I get a massage by a female massage therapist, there's something softer and more nurturing in the touch than when I get one from a male massage therapist. Ok, now I really want a massage. Same here. All of my female friends are very close to how I am. Sarcastic, fun, outgoing, witty. Obviously we all have issues we deal with. I welcome flaws within people as long as they aren't hurtful or self destructive. I enjoy male companionship at times but it more for laughs. I would rather have a girl I can identify and get deep with. I want a message, too. It has been a long time.
BetheButterfly Posted April 11, 2013 Posted April 11, 2013 I know I sure the hell am. I was dumped back in Jan and have bounced back in stride. I can do what I want, go where I want, see who I want and nobody can argue or fight me on it. I have read some other threads and it inspired me to start this one. I am Sheila, a 37 year old single mom. I live in NYS and am going to be starting school next month for Phlebotomy. I am excited to start a new chapter in my life. Your attitude and view on life are awesome!!! This view is GREAT for your kid(s) to see that one does not need a sexual relationship in order to be happy and confident and enjoy life!!! Blessings!!! 2
SmileFace Posted April 11, 2013 Posted April 11, 2013 There are many advantages to being single. I am not dating anyone now, and I like it. I don't have to wear make-up, or wear uncomfortable clothes, or buy skin creams, etc., in other words, I don't care what I look like, and it is refreshing. With my last boyfriend, I could not stand the noise he made when he ate. We would sit in front of the tv and eat and the way he ate drove me crazy. I never told him, but I always left the room for some excuse. I think it's easier for men to be in relationships than women, because even for a woman to go out on a date, it takes a tremendous amount of energy; washing and setting hair, make-up, picking out clothes, etc. I have been "in love" several times in my life and now I like being "out of love". But why -_-........this should be regular stuff
mesmerized Posted April 11, 2013 Posted April 11, 2013 But why -_-........this should be regular stuff Because it's pretty much expected, depending on where you live of course.
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