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Alright I really need a kick in the head for putting myself into this situation again but I also need an outside point of view.

 

After my last "relationship" ending badly, I wanted to stay single for a while. 6 months later, my friend introduced me to his gf's friend for a FWB kind of deal (I didn't want a serious RS)

 

So for a little more than a month, this girl and I had sex every weekend.

It was really good, and there were no romantic feelings from either side. We did flirt a bit when we were out with friends (we share one social circle) but that's it. We had nothing really in common so a RS was out of the question.

 

Last week, I was having dinner with her as she was a bit depressed and wanted to talk (we're friends aren't we) and her sister joined us.

I had met her (very cute) sister before but we never really talked. So while my FWB was busy with her phone, me and the sister really hit it off. We had a lot in common, she was, how you say, exactly my type.

 

When the dinner was over and I was alone in my car, I was shocked as I realized that I had a huge crush on her.

 

Here's the problem (other than the fact that I'm sleeping with her sis, although not anymore since that night), she is kind of dating a guy (3 weeks now) but it's still a FWB type of deal as well (they only meet up Friday night at his house) and they are literally NOTHING alike, they have nothing in common whatsoever. But that makes her not totally single.

 

I *might* have felt something from her over dinner but I can't really be sure (it might just be my imagination though).

I can't stop thinking about her now and I'm completely lost about what to do...

 

I talked to my friend's gf (we're kinda close) and she said that I might have a chance with this girl "later".

 

So any opinions?

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This sounds like an updated plot from the Brady Bunch. And just like in that show, you not pull this off. No chick wants her sister's sloppy seconds...

 

No chick with morals that is. While you have no chance at a relationship with sister #2, you have a very miniscule chance at the coveted sister 3-way. Despite the long odds, you owe it to every other man to try and make that happen. God speed and we are praying for you.

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This sounds like an updated plot from the Brady Bunch. And just like in that show, you not pull this off. No chick wants her sister's sloppy seconds...

 

No chick with morals that is. While you have no chance at a relationship with sister #2, you have a very miniscule chance at the coveted sister 3-way. Despite the long odds, you owe it to every other man to try and make that happen. God speed and we are praying for you.

Thanks for your prayers lmao, and yes, I guess what you're saying is true (the 1st part that is), no chance. God, It feels just like I've been rejected!

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