JasonJ03 Posted April 10, 2013 Posted April 10, 2013 Breakups are tough. Losing something that once seemed so magical is such a harsh experience to go through. Anxiety, panic, Misery, and all those other emotionally draining feelings you go through feel like theyll never pass. You find yourself wanting to talk to your ex. It's like an addiction. Stop and think. Is it a good idea to be talking to this person in your state? Time to enter No Contact. We have all heard of the rule. The No contact with your ex. I wanted to create a thread where people could share their experiences using this method. I think this will help me with my current situation as well as others. Whether your goal was to get your ex back, or move on. How did the NC help you? Did it have a negative effect? Let us hear it below. -I will share my story tonight. I am at work and my breaks are to short for me to reflect on my experience and share my story. I wanted to get this started so others could get their stories out.
Cogee Posted April 10, 2013 Posted April 10, 2013 Time to enter No Contact. We have all heard of the rule. The No contact with your ex. I wanted to create a thread where people could share their experiences using this method. I think this will help me with my current situation as well as others. Whether your goal was to get your ex back, or move on. How did the NC help you? Did it have a negative effect? Let us hear it below. It's honestly depressing to me how people think NC can help get their ex back. I'm not saying you personally believe this, or you want this, but NC will never get an ex back. So many more things have to happen for two people to reconcile that NC is peanuts in the grand scheme. My own experiences have been very positive. Helped me get over every single ex and creates the necessary space for me to move on and do what I want in life. I've only had one ex break NC with me and it was 2 years later, at which point it was clear to me she still had feelings but knew she couldn't act on them. It was basically just her checking up on me to see if I could fit into her life again, but I had already completely moved on. With my current ex, I only broke NC to ask for my things back (which I still have not received) and that's it. I do not expect her to break NC at any point, which works for me!
Sheilalou008 Posted April 10, 2013 Posted April 10, 2013 Here is my thread... http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/374287-new-here-need-s-support
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