Abad Posted April 10, 2013 Posted April 10, 2013 Last week I found out my ex had broken up with his girlfriend. My best friend was texting him last Wednesday and we were suppose to get a drink with him after we got off of work, our plans ended up getting cancelled that night and he texted me and called me a sell out. I told him it wasn't my fault and continued catching up. The next day we tried again and it was getting late and he said he was falling asleep. He texted me the next night asking what I was doing and asked if I was working which of course I was so we ended up not hanging out again. Saturday he had a wedding and work to attend so he was busy. I texted him that night and told him "I know your busy but can we meet up sometime soon" he said he was out drinking and I said it was fine. Anyways Sunday rolls around and we make plans for Monday to get together and he was suppose to text me the address the next day when he got up and about for the day. I Waited all day for the call and no response so I texted him and said look whose the sell out now lol well he read it and never responded to me. It will be 2 days I haven't heard from him at all. Should I just give up or did I sound mean? He texted me first to begin with why is he ignoring me now? Btw he's a Capricorn idk if that will explain it! Should I just go on and not text him anymore? Please help me!! If you need anymore detail just ask Thanks
Infnitysign Posted April 10, 2013 Posted April 10, 2013 Idk your story is kinda short and I dont even know how you guys broke up. Maybe you could try at a latter time or pick a convenient time and place for the both of you and go from there.
Author Abad Posted April 10, 2013 Author Posted April 10, 2013 We had a pretty rocky ending, even though he was willing to hold on, I was the one who had to break it off and find myself. I had so much going on then that I needed to do it. I wanted him to be happy and it wasn't fair for me to drag him through an emotional roller coaster. I actually have a thread on him and our ending written in January. I feel like he's giving me mixed signals and idk if I should just come out and tell him I want him back or just wait it out. I'm just confused about him ignoring the last text, does it mean leave me alone or am I over reading it
geegirl Posted April 10, 2013 Posted April 10, 2013 Capricorn Papricorn! Why the persistence in wanting to meet him? Are you trying to rekindle a relationship with him because I don't post on LS if my plans with friends don't follow through.
Author Abad Posted April 10, 2013 Author Posted April 10, 2013 Yes "trying" being key word. I met with him in January and he was still dating his gf he just recently broke it off with. We talked about out break up and I told him that I still loved him. My friend asked if he would ever date me again out of no where and he said idk, not that it means anything. He's the one who confronted me first. Am I not being clear enough?
geegirl Posted April 10, 2013 Posted April 10, 2013 It could be that he's doing the duck and hide from you because he doesn't want to go down that route with you again. Or it could be that he may be afraid to start something that he's afraid you won't be able to finish. If you really want to put it out there, tell him the truth and he will say yay or nay and you can move on from there.
Author Abad Posted April 10, 2013 Author Posted April 10, 2013 Yeah I figured this and I really can't blame him if he didn't but I just didn't want to go on without telling him how I feel and that's why I wanted to see him in person and tell him everything rather than texting. He's a pretty straight forward guy so I would have thougt he would have said otherwise and plus him making plans with me, maybe it was false hope. I just don't understand why make plans and then not follow them its so annoying and a waste. Ill give it to the end of the week if he texts well go from there if not I think I'll move on. Thanks for the advice
geegirl Posted April 10, 2013 Posted April 10, 2013 Yeah I figured this and I really can't blame him if he didn't but I just didn't want to go on without telling him how I feel and that's why I wanted to see him in person and tell him everything rather than texting. He's a pretty straight forward guy so I would have thougt he would have said otherwise and plus him making plans with me, maybe it was false hope. I just don't understand why make plans and then not follow them its so annoying and a waste. Ill give it to the end of the week if he texts well go from there if not I think I'll move on. Thanks for the advice Maybe he makes plans and chickens out because he fears going there with you in terms of not getting your hopes up or fears starting something that he's afraid won't end well for him.
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