mtnbiker3000 Posted April 10, 2013 Posted April 10, 2013 Just feel like she used me towards the end of the relationship for her own personal agenda. Knew we weren't going to make it together long term, but kept me around so she wouldn't be alone/lonely in this new town. Then as she adjusted to being here (18 months later), I got the boot. Seems very coincidental to me Not even sure why we got engaged, really - same reasons?? Again, I feel like she knew it wasn't to be. I think she is just weak and a coward. I even had to confront her about her increasingly crappy attitude towards me. She didn't have the guts to tell me how she felt without me starting the conversation for her. Very mad right now at her lack of respect for me!!!!
january2011 Posted April 10, 2013 Posted April 10, 2013 Anger is a stage in the grieving process. Denial is another stage. You'll likely cycle through/between each stage, get stuck for a bit longer on some stages and possibly bypass one stage. Breaking up can be similar to someone close to you dying. Best to maintain NC as if she really did drop off the face of the earth so that you can move forward with your life. Otherwise, you'll be "haunted" by the "ghosts" (aka memories) of her.
h3braica Posted April 10, 2013 Posted April 10, 2013 I've been used too for 10 yrs! he made me believe that he is communicating with his ex only for his son. I accepted it even if it hurts. he's an illegal alien in US, I've waited for 10 yrs for him to fix his papers so he can go back here yearly and see each other but when the paper was released he dumped me and return back to his ex. how can I forgive a person like that??? I hope karma hits them soon. #*ck the EX!!!
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