Emily55555 Posted September 15, 2004 Posted September 15, 2004 I really like this guy and were friends but sometimes he just ignores me.. Sometimes he wont leave me alone...sometimes he tells me how great i look... or jokes around with me askin if i wanna go to a movie or make out sumtimes lol but hes just fooling around.. I dont know if he likes me because sometimes when im with him he barely talks to me or responds to me.. I just dont know.. He has alot of money and is given everything like his car and hes got all this expensive stuff and loves to brag about it. Then other times hes all depressed how he doesnt have a girlfriend and is soo lonely all the time because he doesnt have a girlfriend. He has liked me before but hes really shy and i am too and we both were too scared to make the first move... so nothing really happened there. He sometimes says he doesnt want a gf because he doesn't want the attention or people saying anything about it.. Which i think that doesnt matter... but now i really like him again... i mean how shy is he?... hes not at all afraid to tell someone he likes them but really sared to ask them out? I learned that when he used to like me. He had a girlfriend for like a week last year... and he said he was forced to go out with her by his friends... Is he afraid of commitment or what? Whats going on with this guy. I just can't figure him out... anyone have any suggestions... how can i win him over ?
kellydontwanttasleep Posted September 15, 2004 Posted September 15, 2004 if you really like him ask him to get tested with you.
Fayebelle Posted September 15, 2004 Posted September 15, 2004 Originally posted by kellydontwanttasleep if you really like him ask him to get tested with you. huh? Emily- you are 15- how serious of a relationship do you want?
vdubman53 Posted September 15, 2004 Posted September 15, 2004 what kind of test r u talkin bout ? if it is what i think it is and a girl asked me to do that i personally would be a bit freaked out.
Author Emily55555 Posted September 16, 2004 Author Posted September 16, 2004 I dont even get it.... Tested?
myheart02 Posted September 16, 2004 Posted September 16, 2004 I don't know about the tested thing You are to young to to go that far. I would suggest telling him. From what you said he gets everything that he wants but that doesn't make him happy. He likes you but he won't aske you out. I think he is just afraid probably afraid that you might say no. You also want to be careful of those mood changes. You want someone that is going to be into you all the time and not hot and cold. It seems to me sometimes he is there and sometimes he is not. I dating a guy for 4 years that was hot and cold all the time and it isn't worth it especially if you are a romantic at heart.
MadKurlz Posted September 16, 2004 Posted September 16, 2004 If he treats you that way as a friend, could you imagine how he will be romantically invovled with you? You should tell him how you feel, there is no use in wasting time. Whats the worse thing that can happen, that he is not interested? At least you wont be guessing anymore.
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