siankat Posted May 14, 2013 Posted May 14, 2013 for me, my brain has given a hundred logical arguments as to why i should NOT have anything to do with him. Thousands of words, thoughts etc on providing rationale. The only word my heart says is 'but but but but..' 2
Author OzHeartache Posted May 14, 2013 Author Posted May 14, 2013 It is mate....and i know i am still one of the lucky ones. I'm sure you want someone who wants you too unequivocally so i guess with the added blow of feeling rejected, it kinda is like any facet of a person's personality. It's a thing you don't like and is not conducive to a relationship. You can't want someone who doesn't want you as that should be a fundamental flaw and deal breaker in your mind if you truly put you first in a respectful way. It's true the brain catches on first and the heart...oh the heart... Please hurry up you slow coach! hahaha yeah the bloody heart!! My brain kind of knew it was over as it was taking her too long to decide if she wanted to be with me....My head knew that I should say stuff her you deserve better but the heart was holding onto hope.... Hope that the good times weren't over and we would get back together Then to find out the reason is not really anything you did or could change..... pretty tough but hey, I gave it 110% and I know I tried my best.......... yes I could have changed/fixed a few things but if she truly loved me, she would have given "us" another chance for me to prove it
siankat Posted May 14, 2013 Posted May 14, 2013 THat's all any of us can do, our best be glad you did and have no regrets on that front 2
Compromize Posted May 14, 2013 Posted May 14, 2013 THat's all any of us can do, our best be glad you did and have no regrets on that front Amen brother. I did all I could do and then some and I was willing to work it out and compromise to be with her because I wanted her, wanted to spend my life with her. She just didn't want to do the same under the circumstances or felt it was "better" to let me go. We can't change what they want and when they want it or who they want it with. I know I loved her with all my heart and soul, still absolutely do. I just have to let that love find her wherever she is at, and like a binary star that winked out of existence millennia ago and who's light is still shining down on us every night, my love for her is like that. Seemingly without end but without the fuel of its partner star is fated to diminish. 1
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