Can i get my ex girlfriend back ?

[procrastinater]

Hi My situation is very complicated but ill try to make it simple to follow

 

I have been in awe of this girl for about 2 years ( lets call her K ) and when i met her i did not know she was in a relationship but after us getting close she told me that she was ( 5 months after meeting ) so i let go of the idea and moved on. when i moved to the office where she works ( and country ) i met another girl from the office who i started going out with ( lets call her P ). at the same time K declared her feelings for me and that she had them since the day we met. after knowing this she chased me while i was with P and when i broke up with P , K broke up w her boyfriend and we went out. it was very very rocky because of secrecy and the weight of both our EX's and we fought all the time i eventually broke up with her after a month and went back to P. K fought ferociously for me back and then i ended up seeing both at the same time ( secretly ) K felt i was not giving her any attention and she ended up asking for some time apart. Needless to say i was hurt so i invested completely in P and tried to move on while K called me almost everyday without me answering and kissed me a few times in the hallway at work.

 

Then she stopped calling and disappeared ( this was 5 months ago ) apparently she secretly started dating this guy from work ( who isnt the most attractive personality or person but is very sweet ). she then found out that P and I have been dating fully right after our breakup and got very mad at me telling me that she never had feelings for me to begin with and i was just a rebound and that i should forget about her.

 

K had never seen P and i together but last week she saw us at a club and when she got drunk she came to us telling us how we are the " cutest couple and she loves us both so much and is so happy for us " and this dragged on for 15 mins.

 

two days later she texts me telling me that she decided to officially start dating this new guy and wanted to inform me because she didnt want me to find out about them the way she found out about me and P. and now they are official and apparently everyone says they are cute and happy together.

 

Let me add that K gave the new guy a very hard time for the past 4 months asking for an open relationship several times and sleeping with other people.

 

after this long story i would like to say , despite what it looks like i am madly in love with K and i would just ask if it is possible to get her back and what i would need to do ? am i running myself into a dead end ? she does not contact me ever , when i text her she is relatively cold but when i run into her she is over friendly.

 

Thanks for hanging on till the end

[icsvortex]

little hard to follow but I've been here before. K is not someone who should be waited over obviously she slept around when she was seeing another guy, she just doesn't seem like a good girl. Now P on the other hand seems like the one. If I was a gambling man I would put my cards on P and never look back

[procrastinater]

Thanks! although rationally it makes sense, but there are reasons why i do not want to stay with P ( which is not really relevant since its not a scenario of me choosing between them ), what id like to know is if it is possible to get back with K , if she seems to have moved on and if there is a chance what i need to do.

 

Thanks again