Why she did this to me?

[Panda87]

Everything been okay, i almost move on. Until yesterday the day i really need to go back to my hometown. She texted me, she works together with me. She told me about her feeling, that she feel grateful to have me in her life. Said that "there are those moments in her life that she will always remember not because they were important but because i was with her" she also said " i will always stay and forever be special to her", hope we can be good friend some day.

 

Why she did that? when after all this long, she never say anything to me. She has moved on with someone else, i dont want to reach too much into this. I know whatever happens i just need to move on, but why now? why she did all this thing that show she still care only when im leaving?

 

Also, she texted me to know if i reach my hometown safe. She never do this for so long, and all of the sudden now she care?

 

Im sorry guys, i just need to vent here.

[cdt76]

Don't respond to her. Don't talk to her. Don't look at her pictures. And most of all DON"T BE HER FRIEND! She wants you as a friend to ease her guilt. You deserve better. Keep working on you. Forget about the why and for what! Forget about her reasons. Focus on you. Focus on the present and the future. She is the past and she is not in your life anymore.

[h3braica]

live as if she didn't exists! ex are devils.

[Panda87]

Thank you guys for the advises. I've been doing so well, the no contact method not working for me. As i work together with her everyday, but somehow i feel better i guess because im tired of being sad. So even i never see her now anymore, we still remain in contact due to work.

 

Well to see in positive way, i feel way better coping with all this drama. Also i guess its good that me and her leave in good term now. But somehow this little bumps pull me back a little bit. Sigh, i know i just got to MOVE ON. I get tired hearing that, i really hope this pain will make sense some day...