Whenever I think bout breaking up with him, I feel happy. Is that weird?

[itsmycrazylife]

I've been dating a guy for 3 months. Lately, he keeps asking about our relationship. We talk a lot about it. At times he runs hot and cold, but then he keeps asking me about our relationship, which shows he does care, or he wouldn't be so worried.

 

Honestly, I feel happy whenever I think about breaking up with him. When I think about staying in this and working on it, I feel empty, sad, and unmotivated, life begins to feel dull and lifeless. Is this weird? I'm worried that I'm just killing myself over this, trying to make something work that won't work, that isn't meant to work. Then my rational side asks whether I'm letting my feelings deceive me - whether my feelings of happiness are leading me into the problem and tricking me into walking out without trying harder first.

[SuperGeek]

Do him a favour and break up with him so you don't break his heart even more later on. Stop using this man. Be honest and find someone you truly like. It only gets more difficult as time goes on as he will become more attached to you. It will hurt him more later on than at 3 months.

 

If you are sure you don't like him, just end it. Life is too short to be with someone you don't like. You owe it to yourself and to him to be honest about how you feel.