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I see my ex everyday on campus and it hurts


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he's doing fine and im suffering and he knows it.It's been 4 days NC but he's spoken to me briefly in the courtyard whilst smoking cigarettes but i dont really count that. I want him to miss me and to want me like how i want and miss him.....He broke up with me because he said he didnt want a relationship anymore but.... we were still having sex after the break up.

:/ I've stopped having sex with him....ive blocked his number...ive deleted him from fb and blocked him from snapchat....i know hes doing so fine without me and i hate it

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Why do you focus so much how much does he feel about you? It does not matter now really and it should not bother you so much.

 

Why won't you focus on what are you feeling doing something which gives you enjoyment? :) 4 days are really enough to cry everything out and be able to start enjoying yourself.

 

*by focusing on yourself I mean doing things which will make you feel proud of yourself. Just think about the things you are doing, detect how much they chnage you and affect you.

 

Anyways, if anything, the advise is 'Do what you think is best for you'. Just make sure your mind and heart say the same thing.

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I know it's tough, but you just have to put on a happy facade when you see him. Try and pretend like it doesn't bother you, and then you can cry your eyes out once out of sight. This really helped when I ran into my ex and the dude she left me for at the gym all the time.

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