Locust Posted April 10, 2013 Posted April 10, 2013 I was on a chat room and talking casually to this girl who I found out is 18 years old (I'm 26). She is in Poland and we talking about careers and music and so on. Then she wanted to know my Facebook to stay in contact so I gave her me email to look me up. She said she wants to move out of Poland because the economy is really bad there and just want to get away from her parents. She sent me a email saying we can we talk saying I find you interesting. The funny part is she has boyfriend at least what she told me. I told her I can be you online buddy, you don't want to make your boyfriend jealous. Then she said well he is talking to a girl from Georgia, and I thinking like whoa this is bizarre. What do you guys think? Hope this is not going to be a mail order bride.
ThaWholigan Posted April 10, 2013 Posted April 10, 2013 Soon she's gonna ask you for money to travel, and for her sick mum or some sh*t. Leave it out, mate. 2
Author Locust Posted April 10, 2013 Author Posted April 10, 2013 Soon she's gonna ask you for money to travel, and for her sick mum or some sh*t. Leave it out, mate. Oh yeah... I heard about those stories. Seeing what you wrote remind what happen to this guy when he tried to meet a Russian girl. I don't have any interest in her because she is a bit too young for me.
Author Locust Posted April 10, 2013 Author Posted April 10, 2013 but she is doing something for you otherwise you wouldn't stay in contact. I'm only being a online buddy
Author Locust Posted April 10, 2013 Author Posted April 10, 2013 Sounds like somebody is looking for a ticket out of poland. Just think, if she marries you and her boyfriend marries Miss Georgia they could both become citizens, dump the two of you and reunite. Quite an ingenious plan I would never marry anyone outside of the US unless they were already here when I met them. I know a guy is getting married to a woman from Ukraine. he is taking the chance, but what you mention I'm highly aware of it.
Driftking102 Posted April 10, 2013 Posted April 10, 2013 You don't need to pretend. I've been in the same place. Trolling the internet for cute girls to talk to so I didn't feel so alone and to laugh at some of my bad jokes while in the back of my mind kind of hoping I was with her. I used to be one of these people in Junior High and my Softmore year in high school. I quickly grew out of it because dating girls 5 minutes away is better then being in a different country. You can see girls who live 5 minutes away and you cant see girls who live in a different country. You dont know what they are doing when they are not ttalking to you. 99% of the time those out of country girls are liars.
Driftking102 Posted April 10, 2013 Posted April 10, 2013 watch out for the police to. They love to nab 26 year old dudes who are looking for a relationship with an 18 year old. sorry dude but to me thats creepy. Look for someone at least 2 years younger then you. thats where i draw the line.
Author Locust Posted April 10, 2013 Author Posted April 10, 2013 I used to be one of these people in Junior High and my Softmore year in high school. I quickly grew out of it because dating girls 5 minutes away is better then being in a different country. You can see girls who live 5 minutes away and you cant see girls who live in a different country. You dont know what they are doing when they are not ttalking to you. 99% of the time those out of country girls are liars. As long you don't engage in something deep you will be okay.
Author Locust Posted April 10, 2013 Author Posted April 10, 2013 As much as you think you can control how hard you fall for someone you really can't. I definitely will control it...
Giraffe1 Posted April 10, 2013 Posted April 10, 2013 Do you really have no one else to talk in your life besides polish girl? This scenario is fishy,fishy.
ExpatInItaly Posted April 11, 2013 Posted April 11, 2013 Do you have plans to visit Poland in the near future or something? If not, why bother? (as anything other than a friend, I mean) The whole situation sounds sketchy.
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