Praying4Peace Posted April 9, 2013 Posted April 9, 2013 Can someone maybe give me an insight here? Since NC about 3.5 months ago I *think* exMM threw some crumbs out but they were so small I didn't really even care or notice. Then about a month ago my soon to be ex-H would angrily let me know if either ex-MM or his BW checked his Linked In profile. Around that time I noticed that after ex-MM unblocked me on FB (we are not friends but you can see profile pic and some info). I assumed that she had done it so that she could see...is there a reason that she would want to see? She and I are blocked on FB (I blocked her almost a year ago). And then she had him block me. And now he's unblocked and I'm just confused. I figure if it makes her feel better to look or somehow helps her healing thats fine. I also assume she just took over his account bc no way in hell would she allow him access to my profile. Now my H texts me to tell me that his BW friended him on Linked In. Will someone smarter than me tell me what's going on? I did see the whole family about a week ago. We knew each other before the A bc we live in the same area and our kids go to the same schools or at least used to before we moved. One other thing- at the end of this A from hell my H and the BW had a very short emotional affair based on talking about how hurt they were. BW had the double purpose of having a friend to talk to and flaunting it in her hubby's face which made him very upset. She's not really a doormat. I wanna take a nap and not even care but I get kind of anxious because all I want to do is relax and heal.
Poppy fields Posted April 10, 2013 Posted April 10, 2013 Everyone needs to drop this petty bullshyt, and you all need to get into some therapy post haste. This will not be resolved quickly, and will not be resolved until all the parties to this mess own their parts and start acting like adults.
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