Ladyrascalz Posted April 9, 2013 Posted April 9, 2013 I realize this thread will be long but I need some serious help and opinions about my situation. Did I do the right thing here? I need some confirmation. I broke up with my bf of one year and a half. It was mostly because of trust, I can't be with someone who give me no reason to trust them. He's gone out with other girls and his friends to drink and we've had problems with that where I've forgiven him. I have a feeling he flirts around with other girls as well. He always asks to see my phone and I find it a little weird i've let him though because I have nothing to hide. If he's curious, then he can be. Anyway, I got an idea that I wanted to see how he would react if I spontaneously asked to see his. He acted super suspicious and he said "but why!?!" "WHY!" so finally I got really pissed and he's like OK i'll let you see it, and he's showing me his messages but he's holding the phone not clicking on any of them. I see ton of girls, so i'm like can I see their conversations please? you click it .. he's like stalling so finally I'm like listen I don't need to see them your reaction is enough to prove you aren't fully honest with me. We've also had problems with him being verbally abusive to me calling me a b**** and a whore. I've asked him to stop and he still continues. We broke up 5 days ago, he tried to come back and I said no way and he started calling me names like sult ect ect. He's not supportive at all, he's never here when I need him. He never takes me anywhere or does nice things!! I mean our anniversary was coming up and he gave me a watch. I don't care about gifts but time together should mean more than him just coming to my house. I know he's not ashamed of me because I've met all his friends. I don't understand, I'm so good to him and I do so much whatever he needs i'm there. If it's support he needs I'm there, I'm faithful and honest. He was broke and job less these past few months I loaned him money to pay his rent, I even wrote him an entire resume and applied to places so he could find work. I help him do his own college work when Im about to be a med student in a few months. I have no time but I give him some. He's younger than I am. I'm 22 and he's 19 and I've tried everything to make it work with him but I can't stay with someone when they don't treat me right. What do you guys think? Thanks in advance for your comments. I'm new to this lol:)
blotter Posted April 9, 2013 Posted April 9, 2013 Someone calls you a bitch and a whore and you need to ask a forum if you were right to break up with him?
Author Ladyrascalz Posted April 10, 2013 Author Posted April 10, 2013 Someone calls you a bitch and a whore and you need to ask a forum if you were right to break up with him? No you're absolutely right .. right after a break up sometimes you start questioning yourself is all.
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