LostOne1 Posted April 10, 2013 Posted April 10, 2013 I don't get it. Why would a guy willingly date his stalker? Sounds extremely odd. Usually stalkers freak people out, not make them jump into a stalkers arms. I don't get why date someone who you claim to hate? What sane person would? A desperate guy might date a stalker.. he can't find anyone else, so go for the stalker hahah
headsashed Posted April 10, 2013 Posted April 10, 2013 Its crazy isn't it, we feel like were 100% over them and stupid little things trigger thoughts etc and it confuses us and makes us think we aint over our ex's. Weird how you have been dreaming about your ex too, must be something to do with the weather lol. I do wish I had listened to LS members the 1st time round and id be well ahead of you ,saying that, ive done virtually everything I possibly can to turn my life around in these 11 months, all new friends,hobbies etc, ive even started my own business which isn't going too bad tbh. The only thing I felt was missing was a girlfriend, so I got 1 lol, it didn't work out though, my fault lol, I just cant open up to anyone these days,like im scared of getting hurt again and thinkin they will cheat on me like my ex. Still 11 month on I little things do trigger memories and I get the odd dream and that causes me to think im not over the ex even though I don't feel anything, I think maybe we just miss the cuddles etc and not the ex?
geegirl Posted April 10, 2013 Posted April 10, 2013 I don't get it. Why would a guy willingly date his stalker? Sounds extremely odd. Usually stalkers freak people out, not make them jump into a stalkers arms. I don't get why date someone who you claim to hate? What sane person would? I would ask him as to why she was in his office, the few times I saw her in there and when she started trying to be my friend, I would tell him about her persistence to get to know me. I believe he was trying to get me off his scent by bad mouthing her so that I wouldn't think or have any inclination that something was going on. If he hates her but has to deal with her for work and that she's a stalker, I'd probably believe he wouldn't want anything to do with her. Just as you're thinking. Mission accomplished. 1
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