lastresort Posted April 9, 2013 Posted April 9, 2013 Well here is what I got from her tonight: Fuc. Ur mean. Why are u so dumb. I hate living here. She is referring to how dumb I was to screw up and make her move out. Breaks my heart. Things the last few days are getting back to how we used to be. I keep falling asleep at her house in her bed. All though we are not a bf&gf she holds my hand, kisses me, calls me during the day, not even talk just stay on phone in silence for long periods. I told her she is welcome to move back at any time when she is ready. She replied thank you and I love you. Just weird. Still not holding my breath. I love her and her son soooo much. She also asked me if we go to San Diego for the day on Friday and have a date. Wish me luck.
ukman78 Posted April 9, 2013 Posted April 9, 2013 Sounds like your getting mixed signals from her as she is trying to work in in her head what she wants, but keep you onhold in case she chooses you. It is devastating to be put in limbo like this and I think it is totally unfair on you and even her. A no contact seperation would help both of you decide what to do, either be togther 100% or not. I am no expert, but am going through something silimal. I can see how much this is playing on your mind and hope you all the best in the future.
Author lastresort Posted April 9, 2013 Author Posted April 9, 2013 I do feel like she may be honestly working it all out in her head. In not rushing her into anything and I wait for her to contact me. I noticed since I quit calling and texting her she has really come along.
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