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Roadkill007 Established Member

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Kay guys, I really didn't want to do this, but I've read so many of these damn threads that I'm quite sick of it. Some of you are having issues approaching women because of the fear of rejection, some of you are constantly being rejected and thus somehow end up hating yourselves, some of you are just blaming everything but yourselves for your lack of dates, etc. In any case, you all are lashing out at everything else and yourselves, and are doing no one any favors.

 

 

 

HOW DO YOU THINK I'VE DEALT WITH HAVING A MICROPENIS MY ENTIRE LIFE? Can you imagine the constant fear of laughter from your partner when you're about to have sex? Can you imagine the constant fear of validating a stereotype of your entire race/gender to some blabbermouth who will then have fun at the expense of your entire race/gender's image? Can you imagine the fear that you might visibly cringe at another 2 inch pecker joke, thus maybe revealing your secret to the world? Can you imagine the constant wear and tear of your ego every time you look in a goddamn mirror?

 

Do I blame women for generally preferring bigger penises, or start bad mouthing them? NO! Do I get suicidal since I'm "hardly" a man and thus must have no chance at a normal relationship? NO! Do I let chances for relationships get away JUST because I'm scared of that unveiling moment? NO! And YES, it's INSANELY scary. Every single possible romantic relationship scares the living crap out of me, because of how vulnerable I've always felt about this. But I don't take it out on others, and I certainly don't take it out in myself. So you all need to MAN UP! This is coming from the guy who's in the .6% of all men according to wiki. If you can't man up about your silly problems, LEAVE YOUR MANHOOD RIGHT HERE, with someone willing and able to use it properly. Thank you.

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IT Geek Established Member

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At least you can get dates to get to the point where they see your penis. Some of us can't even get a date to a Jimmy Buffett show with 3rd row tix and backstage passes!

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MidwestUSA Established Member

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I have seen one. And only because it was in a surgical setting. We had to use a pediatric scope. It is far from a laughing matter. You have my respect, sir, and best wishes. May you find that person who appreciates ALL of you!

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Esoteric Elf Established Member

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In any case, you all are lashing out at everything else and yourselves, and are doing no one any favors.

I don't know, brudda. I'm a pretty darn bad catch, so by not putting myself out there, I'm doing plenty of girls favors.:o

Els Established Member

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Feck, now I can't get images of cockroaches out of my head!!!!! :mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad:

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Ever been scared to open a link on ls?

lol,.. I sure was

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Els Established Member

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I've always admired people like Wholigan for remaining optimistic about dating despite having innate conditions that make it difficult for them to do so. I'm adding you to my list, OP. :)

 

As for the guys you're targetting this at, I doubt they're listening. They're too busy making disparaging comments about women in a few choice threads right this very moment. :)

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ThaWholigan Established Member

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I admire your courage in posting that, and I wish you the very best of luck.

 

Sadly, I'm guessing it will fall on deaf ears. But I'm wholeheartedly behind you, dude. Good luck :).

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Els Established Member

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FWIW, OP, there will also be guys who try to put you down for saying this.

 

Don't let them get to you.

 

Any woman worth her salt will choose you over a man with a larger penis who has no interest in bringing her sexual satisfaction. A penis attached to a selfish lover is nothing more than a useless appendage.

 

Yes, it isn't easy to find such women, but they're out there. Learn all you can about pleasuring women in other ways, and have faith.

 

Good luck. :)

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Revolver Established Member

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Classic example of men not being allowed to complain. We have these type threads daily about men but its rare for women. It shows you how different we treat the genders when they have problems

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ThaWholigan Established Member

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Classic example of men not being allowed to complain. We have these type threads daily about men but its rare for women. It shows you how different we treat the genders when they have problems

Coz we're always f-cking complaining nowadays :rolleyes:. Otherwise we wouldn't have these kinda threads.

MidwestUSA Established Member

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It is exposure to these serious problems that have made me come to really appreciate what I have. Sadly, the gentleman I met could have had his condition rectified early in life with testosterone had it been recognized sooner. I also worked with a girl who was born without a vagina. Drop dead gorgeous she was too. Meeting her family, and observing the incredible love and support they offered, was humbling. We all have problems (or perceived problems). How we deal with them defines us.

 

Courage indeed!

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reaver Established Member

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There's your problem. :laugh:

 

Please dont listen to this guy. He is a nutjob

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Roadkill007 Established Member

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Thanks for the support, guys, and sorry for the belated response. I did have a little freak out after posting this, as a few minutes after I posted it, it disappeared from the forums (checked under the list of "my posts" and it wasn't there either), and I sort of assumed it was deleted by a mod for being inappropriate or something. I DID type it up when I was on an emotional high, after all :sick:. Even as I'm typing this, I'm feeling a bit apprehensive of essentially bumping this thread back up, but I did want to let you guys know that I've read and appreciated your comments. Once again, thanks for the support guys, it really meant a lot coming back to find so many positive posts in a thread I thought was deleted.

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I've always admired people like Wholigan for remaining optimistic about dating despite having innate conditions that make it difficult for them to do so. I'm adding you to my list, OP. :)

 

As for the guys you're targetting this at, I doubt they're listening. They're too busy making disparaging comments about women in a few choice threads right this very moment. :)

 

A guy can be good with women, but still make disparaging comments about them. ;)

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/salute OP

todreaminblue Established Member

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Kay guys, I really didn't want to do this, but I've read so many of these damn threads that I'm quite sick of it. Some of you are having issues approaching women because of the fear of rejection, some of you are constantly being rejected and thus somehow end up hating yourselves, some of you are just blaming everything but yourselves for your lack of dates, etc. In any case, you all are lashing out at everything else and yourselves, and are doing no one any favors.

 

 

 

HOW DO YOU THINK I'VE DEALT WITH HAVING A MICROPENIS MY ENTIRE LIFE? Can you imagine the constant fear of laughter from your partner when you're about to have sex? Can you imagine the constant fear of validating a stereotype of your entire race/gender to some blabbermouth who will then have fun at the expense of your entire race/gender's image? Can you imagine the fear that you might visibly cringe at another 2 inch pecker joke, thus maybe revealing your secret to the world? Can you imagine the constant wear and tear of your ego every time you look in a goddamn mirror?

 

Do I blame women for generally preferring bigger penises, or start bad mouthing them? NO! Do I get suicidal since I'm "hardly" a man and thus must have no chance at a normal relationship? NO! Do I let chances for relationships get away JUST because I'm scared of that unveiling moment? NO! And YES, it's INSANELY scary. Every single possible romantic relationship scares the living crap out of me, because of how vulnerable I've always felt about this. But I don't take it out on others, and I certainly don't take it out in myself. So you all need to MAN UP! This is coming from the guy who's in the .6% of all men according to wiki. If you can't man up about your silly problems, LEAVE YOUR MANHOOD RIGHT HERE, with someone willing and able to use it properly. Thank you.

 

as another poster said there are women who dont care about the size of the penis....if you have seen enough they become a bit of a blur....a good lover and and an excellent man knows how to please a woman by gettign to knwo what she enjoys and it istn about penis size, its about love not just sex.....best wishes.....kudos to you for standing up...hugs....deb

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