TheGuard13 Posted April 9, 2013 Posted April 9, 2013 So my girlfriend and I broke up about two and a half weeks ago. I've been seeing a couple of girls from our social circle for about a week now. Last Friday I spent the night with one of them. So last night, my ex (who is still living with me) asked me when I went out Friday night and didn't come home, was I with someone? I told her that I was, and she asked who, and when I wouldn't tell her, she said it was going to drive her crazy not knowing. What was that all about? She claims she was just curious, but I wonder why she'd even want to know.
Author TheGuard13 Posted April 9, 2013 Author Posted April 9, 2013 It was mutual, but I suppose technically I initiated it.
Pisces13 Posted April 9, 2013 Posted April 9, 2013 It was mutual, but I suppose technically I initiated it. Well there is your answer. That is why she wants to know.
Emilia Posted April 9, 2013 Posted April 9, 2013 What was that all about? She claims she was just curious, but I wonder why she'd even want to know. Doesn't matter, the two of you need to live separately, this is not fair on her especially 3
Chi townD Posted April 9, 2013 Posted April 9, 2013 I agree. This isn't fair to her. You ended it with her and within 2 weeks you're dating other girls and sleeping with them. To her, it shows that you never had any feelings for her because you're certainly aren't taking them into consideration right now. And that maybe you never really loved her or even cared about her. I mean, if it's over then it's over, but you don't have to flaunt your new lifestyle in her face. Find some tact, dude. 4
Damsel in Distress Posted April 9, 2013 Posted April 9, 2013 You ended it with her and within 2 weeks you're dating other girls and sleeping with them. and they are girls from your shared social circle... not cool. I don't blame her for wanting to know if you are sleeping with her friends. If there are reasons she still has to live there, would it be that hard to show a little sensitivity and if you must move on before she moves out, at least be discreet?
mtnbiker3000 Posted April 9, 2013 Posted April 9, 2013 Yeah, kind of a dick move!! How would you feel if she did that to you? Well, maybe you wouldn't care. Ok, play-time is over. Come back when you have an adult relationship...
Author TheGuard13 Posted April 9, 2013 Author Posted April 9, 2013 Flaunting? She asked me. I didn't volunteer the information. I hadn't said a word about it. I am being sensitive about the situation, and so are the other girls. I wanted an adult relationship. She wouldn't have one with me. For the better part of 6-8 months, she was a lousy girlfriend. She wouldn't communicate on almost any level, and her constant negativity and eventual avoidance was making me incredibly depressed, anxious, and hurting my self esteem. Nevermind that she agreed to the situation we're in now when we broke up. We discussed all this in detail. I could care less about being fair, when she apparently didn't give a fig about my feelings or the issues we faced while we were actually in a relationship. Life isn't fair. It isn't fair that the girl I cared about enough to commit to and move in with suddenly decided to stop trying in our relationship, wouldn't communicate with me about why, and wouldn't work on it at all. "Fair" is rarely a valid reason to do anything.
Chi townD Posted April 9, 2013 Posted April 9, 2013 Okay, so if you're cool with everything, then why the thread?
Author TheGuard13 Posted April 9, 2013 Author Posted April 9, 2013 I put the reason for the thread in my first post. What was that all about? She claims she was just curious, but I wonder why she'd even want to know.
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