juststarry6443 Posted April 9, 2013 Posted April 9, 2013 I'm so angry with my boyfriend right now. He's just been ****ing up over and over again. I can't take it anymore! I'm so frustrated. He likes to put a friend's company over mine. He forgets to text me when he knows we were talking about something important (ie. I just texted him I hurt my leg practicing my dance routine. He's like oh yeah how? I told him then he responded 2 hours later saying yeah...so what are you doing now?) He tells me he's going to pick me up at noon. Texts me at 12:20 Im gonna pick you up at 2 I'm gonna wait for my parents to bring me food. I said alright 2 passes by 2:30 passes by and when it reached 3 I was all sweaty and I took a shower. He didn't even apologize for being late! Asking me why I have a stinky face on when he wasn't late he got here in the afternoon (i think he's dumb in the head and doesn't know what the definition of NOON is!) And today I texted him Goodmorning like I always do even though I was pissed the **** off for him not texting me goodnight at least before he went to hang out with friends. Then, he's like why would you text me goodmorning if youre not over it yet? Also, that I shouldn't be giving him a guilt trip at 8 in the morning. So my sarcastic self responded with Alright I'll talk to you later tonight at 8 then...he hung up on me. On my birthday I went paintballing, but this kid was so grumpy. He couldn't give me what I wanted for a day. There's multiple fields to choose from I chose the one that was the farthest hike and with the most climbing. He whined like a little baby because I didn't choose what he wanted. So for the rest of the day I turned to him about what field to choose to play in. I'm so frustrated. I want to break up or am I just being crazy right now.
Roadkill007 Posted April 9, 2013 Posted April 9, 2013 has he always been like this? Or are some of these actions more recent rather than a continual behavior? Either way, it really sucks for you. Kinda feels like a manboy.
Author juststarry6443 Posted April 9, 2013 Author Posted April 9, 2013 It's a continuous cycle ever since I moved back into town (we use to be an LDR). He'd do something wrong, I'd tell him how it made me feel, he'd apologize, says he'll do better, and then repeat something.
Roadkill007 Posted April 9, 2013 Posted April 9, 2013 well, I mean more specifically like being bad with times (the noon thing), not very emotionally available, selfish, etc. are those traits more recent or were they kinda there the whole time?
Author juststarry6443 Posted April 9, 2013 Author Posted April 9, 2013 Does the past 9 months seem recent?
Roadkill007 Posted April 9, 2013 Posted April 9, 2013 yeaa.... clearly you're not getting through to him. Ugh, sounds insanely frustrating. So basically you didn't notice these traits at first but they've been popping up since you two have been together.... yea... sounds pretty typical <.<; They're the kind of things that come out when guys get comfortable with their gfs, then you get to see their real character sorry, and better luck next time, OP
Author juststarry6443 Posted April 9, 2013 Author Posted April 9, 2013 On his birthday I went out of my way to surprise him at work and asked him to watch movies later on that night. He had told me he really wanted to see it and I said I'd treat. He told me no and that he's tired. He texted me after work and told he's going to hang out with his friend's family because they wanted to wish him a happy birthday, but wtf I thought you said you're tired. His reason was that he just wanted me to hang out with mt family who came to visit. One time on our anniversary he took me to go smoke with his friends. I don't smoke so I was just standing there, what a nice anniversary that was for me. On Valentine's Day this year with the economic crisis we hardly had money, but I had a few dollars and I bought him a card and took the time to write something meaningful. He--he didn't even make me something or send me one of those long texts. He said he'd make it up to me the next day. We hung out but it was no different from every other day we hang out. Sit on our bums every single weekend watching Spongebob. I paid for him AND HIS FRIENDS to go paintballing on my birthday. I spent all I had and I didn't even get a present from him or him just being nice to me for one day. I feel bad for nagging now.
Roadkill007 Posted April 9, 2013 Posted April 9, 2013 On his birthday I went out of my way to surprise him at work and asked him to watch movies later on that night. He had told me he really wanted to see it and I said I'd treat. He told me no and that he's tired. He texted me after work and told he's going to hang out with his friend's family because they wanted to wish him a happy birthday, but wtf I thought you said you're tired. His reason was that he just wanted me to hang out with mt family who came to visit. One time on our anniversary he took me to go smoke with his friends. I don't smoke so I was just standing there, what a nice anniversary that was for me. On Valentine's Day this year with the economic crisis we hardly had money, but I had a few dollars and I bought him a card and took the time to write something meaningful. He--he didn't even make me something or send me one of those long texts. He said he'd make it up to me the next day. We hung out but it was no different from every other day we hang out. Sit on our bums every single weekend watching Spongebob. I paid for him AND HIS FRIENDS to go paintballing on my birthday. I spent all I had and I didn't even get a present from him or him just being nice to me for one day. I feel bad for nagging now. wow... I think he didn't miss a single red flag...
Author juststarry6443 Posted April 9, 2013 Author Posted April 9, 2013 Thanks for talking to me. I think I know what the right thing to do is now
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