Slowjam35 Posted April 9, 2013 Posted April 9, 2013 My girlfriend of six months broke up with me two weeks ago because she had to move to another country (due to family issues). She assured me that the only reason she ended it was because of the move, and that she didn't think the long distance thing would work (I wanted to try it, but I understood why she didn't). We had little to no problems in our relationship and we were both happy, so the fact that we had to end it because of circumstances is really unfortunate. I'm having a really hard time dealing with this and accepting that it is over. Everything was great, but now she's just gone... How do I deal with this? It's like I want to be mad at someone, either myself or her, but I can't because like I said, we really had no problems. This is what's making it hard for me to accept that it's over. I know the best advice would probably just be to give it time, but is there any other advice? Does anyone have experience with this kind of situation? And just a note, I messaged her a couple days ago asking her how she's been and she ignored it, so I guess I'm going full No Contact from now on...
CC12 Posted April 9, 2013 Posted April 9, 2013 How do I deal with this? It's like I want to be mad at someone If you have to be mad at something, be mad at the family issues, be mad at the country she moved to, be mad at the timing, be mad that you weren't born later, be mad that the stars aligned to screw you over, be mad at that ****ing tree over there with the smug look. Whatever, just get mad, go for a jog/punch a pillow/listen to dubstep/get a new haircut. Then be done with it and move on. Don't hold on to any of that anger, though. Seriously. Just get angry at no one in particular once or twice and get it out of your system. 1
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