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Why is she flaking on me?


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So I just got out of a break up not too long ago, and I ended up going out with a group of people and really hit it off with a very beautiful and outgoing girl.

 

We had a GREAT time! Kissing, touching, dancing (she couldn't keep her hands of me). By the end of the night she was trying to set up a date for the next day.

 

Well, I contacted her two days later and she is flaking on me. No response or nothing. Was she simply just drunk? Hell I could of taken her home if I wanted too, but I didn't want to.

 

I'm not going to contact her again, but I'm definitely feeling dissapointed. What is she thinking?

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Sorry, she was probably drunk and is now embarrassed how forward she was with you.

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Happened to me on a number of occasions man. You reeeally think you hit it off with someone, then they even contact you over the next couple of days asking to hang out again. Then, poof, gone.

 

You aren't the first one she's done this to, and you won't be the last.

 

People like this generally want to be wanted, but never want you. Certainly not on a serious relationship level. You know what I mean? Also, if things are this complicated now, why would you want those kind of problems on a serious relationship level?

 

Your best bet is to not call, not text, not contact anymore. You've already put yourself out there, and it's her move. Don't go about your days expecting her to call, though. Move on, meet more people.

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How long has it been since you contacted her?

 

Chances are she just changed her mind. She had a fun night with you, and maybe that was all she wanted. Chicks do that stuff as well you know. It's not nice, but it happens.

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drunk, move on, or better still get her to admit shes not interested in you if you need the confirmation

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