mikejh0730 Posted September 15, 2004 Posted September 15, 2004 Ok, here is the story. I met this girl a while ago through some friends, never really talked to her. I saw her at this restaurant I work at one time. She asked if I was going out that night and I said yes. She asked for my number so she could get a hold of me later. She called later that night and asked me to come down to a bar where her and some friends were at. I went to the bar to see her. When I got there we went to the bar together and talked for about 20. I left the bar a little while later after talking for a while. Nothing happened. I called her last night to see what she was up to. She has a 3 year old and I could here the kid yelling in the background. She said she has her hands full. We talked a little bit and she told me to call her sometime, or she will call me. What do I do. This was yesterday. I don't want to wait too long to call her back. Do I ask her to do something that would involve taking the kid along too? I was in a long relationship and trying to get back on track in the women situation.
Mr Spock Posted September 15, 2004 Posted September 15, 2004 Whatever you do, don't call her for no reason. If you're going to call, no later than 3 days and actually have something planned in mind, with enough notice for her to hire a sitter (IE want to go bowling on Sat/Sun whatever coffee, a movie)if needed. Calling up just to chat could make you look like a dork. Take her out for a light dinner.
Butchey Posted September 15, 2004 Posted September 15, 2004 If you are interested , call her again tonight and ask her out for cofee or something. If she wants to bring the kid fine. You gotta start somwhere. The kid may be quiet tonight for your call. If not call again tomorrow. Don't read too much into it. You'll only waste time.
jimbuck Posted September 17, 2004 Posted September 17, 2004 no. don't ask her to bring her kid along for a little while....this will be a distraction for the both of you, and how will you know if you're into her, when her kid is right there...after you build the relationship foundation a bit, then bring the kid along, then there is no "first" date stress with that. and it won't screw up the kid if you two don't last very long....heheh jimbuck
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