abeezy Posted April 8, 2013 Posted April 8, 2013 Hi so long story short i dumped my bf a 3 weeks ago and last week he contacted me in a text. i did respond to him cause he told me his grandpa was dying and i told him i was sorry for him . well then he goes into saying how hes sorry i felt used by him n that he didnt use me and then i tell him politely that i dont want to rehash anything and whats done is done! then he goes on to say how he misses me and thinks about me everyday lol and how he wants to have a talk in person.well he hasnt texted me since then and i havent been putting much thought over this since i broke up with him . i do however still have some feelings but i dont see why he wants to talk all of a sudden now when i gave him 2 chances already and he basically ignored me and didnt give a crap about me the 2 time around now. part of me wants to believe him but i dont think one can change in 2 weeks time. i thought the dumpee usually doesnt contact the dumper?
uniquecase Posted April 8, 2013 Posted April 8, 2013 I think you've given him enough chances. Can't he take a hint? Not broken up with once, but twice? Be compassionate with him that he's going through tough times but I don't see how that changes the relationship status or your feelings towards him.
TheFriend Posted April 9, 2013 Posted April 9, 2013 The dumper almost always will contact the dumper. Unless they are extremely experienced or tough I would say they are always going to try an make contact. 1
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