TaraMaiden Posted April 9, 2013 Posted April 9, 2013 Whereas with me, we just find some chocolate-flavoured 'mud', strip off and get down and dirty, huh, GT.....? 1
GorillaTheater Posted April 9, 2013 Posted April 9, 2013 Whereas with me, we just find some chocolate-flavoured 'mud', strip off and get down and dirty, huh, GT.....? A much more productive way to resolve conflicts. "Staying clam." F*ck me. I really do need to spend time proof-reading my posts.
Got it Posted April 9, 2013 Posted April 9, 2013 I grew up in a family that debates a lot. So we were able to get out of punishment if we had a sound argument and facts. So that is how I handle things now. I am not a fan of name calling at all. I do raise my voice, it is a negative again from my family as we are all voice raisers. My problem is I will pound an issue to death as I really like to dissect it and figure out the whys to the whys to the original why. So for me it is a learning opportunity, for the other it can be beating a dead horse. I am do put myself in someone else's shoes so I want to hear their side, discuss it and figure out where there may have been a misunderstanding, a miscommunication, etc. Then there is just stuff that grates on my nerves and I get pissy/frustrated about. I may not initially handles those things well as I am quick to irritate unfortunately. 1
TaraMaiden Posted April 9, 2013 Posted April 9, 2013 "Staying clam." F*ck me. I really do need to spend time proof-reading my posts. Nooooo! I love shellfish!! Straight from the shell, they're sex-food!! 1
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