hockeyfan99 Posted April 8, 2013 Posted April 8, 2013 its been almost 7 months since we BU and almost 2 months since we went into NC. but for some reason i have been really missing my ex the last two days. don't get me wrong, i miss her everyday. but these past two days have been killer. it comes in waves sometimes. most days i'm ok even if i think about her all day long. but i really don't know what to make of these past two days. i think as time passes it will get better but on the same token i feel like i'm getting further and further from her. i mean i am in every sense of the word but it just really hurts and i just want all this to pass. the hardest thing for me is that i feel SUPER lonely and want someone new in my life. i think its time. but for me, i feel like i'm trying SO hard to meet someone new. a lot of people will prob say that i'm not ready yet and that may be true. but i don't think i'll ever FULLY get over my ex. so i think its time to move on and try to start again.
denxnis Posted April 8, 2013 Posted April 8, 2013 No pity here, you should have gone NC a long time ago man. I had that same feeling of extreme loneliness, and sometimes still do, but you learn to adapt and become a better person from it. When you're desperate and needy in-order to "replace" your ex it shows and you'll only drive woman away.
Author hockeyfan99 Posted April 8, 2013 Author Posted April 8, 2013 No pity here, you should have gone NC a long time ago man. I had that same feeling of extreme loneliness, and sometimes still do, but you learn to adapt and become a better person from it. When you're desperate and needy in-order to "replace" your ex it shows and you'll only drive woman away. funny how you have "no pity" yet you still reply. thanks for the "kind" words of wisdom but i WASN'T asking for "pity". i came here to vent as many do and i feel that if you don't have something useful to say then you shouldn't reply. thanks a bunch dr phil.
Silver_star Posted April 9, 2013 Posted April 9, 2013 I think what you should take from denxnis comment is that you should have started NC sooner to avoid the pain that you are currently in. You are not providing yourself with any solutions by back tracking, so keep up the NC with no slip ups and you will be on the right path sooner. Easier said than done. It takes time. Just focus on yourself. Keep busy and your life will be full of NEW things and new people that cut into the time you used to be spending thinking of your ex. You will get over her. Guaranteed. 1
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