idontknow98 Posted April 8, 2013 Posted April 8, 2013 Me and my ex recently started talking again after 1 month of NC. We have been hanging out lately. When we are together she makes physical contact a lot. What could this be? In the very early stages of talking again, I was stupid and asked her back out again and she said she wasn't ready yet. She says she doesn't want to be "just friends" but she isn't ready to be in a relationship with me. But since then we have still been talking and when we hang out she still makes a lot of physical contact. Should I just be cool and see where it goes?
WhatYouWantToHear Posted April 8, 2013 Posted April 8, 2013 Should I just be cool and see where it goes? No, you should call her on it. Maybe she just wants to be friends with benefits. Maybe she wants to take it slow. Maybe she's playing with you. Maybe, maybe maybe. Quit asking the internet for speculation when you can directly ask the person who is doing it.
Noma Posted April 8, 2013 Posted April 8, 2013 It depends on the person. You know her better than any one of us. You could play it cool, or take it slow for a few weeks, then talk to her. Up to you. I myself wouldn't rush a decision on the one I am waiting for. He needs to come to the decision on his own, or it will never happen. It's just who he is. I'm guessing that your emotions are running kinda high right now. So taking it slow would be best.
Infnitysign Posted April 10, 2013 Posted April 10, 2013 Let her lead this dont push her into it and at the same time know what you are doing and just dont do the same things every weekend with her. Go out and try new things and dont ever bring up the past relationship or ask if she dated or slept with anyone while you were broken up.
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