BeeLove Posted April 8, 2013 Posted April 8, 2013 I have been on & off with the same guy since I was 15, I am now 21. We've never been exclusive but there's always been a "thing" between us, not even sure what to call it at this point. It's way too intimate to be FWB & just falling short of an exclusive relationship. My issue is whenever I'm busy, can't necessarily see him or even return a call he gets upset, leaves text messages, voicemails about me ignoring him. I can openly admit my job didn't permit me to have much of a social life. Recently I was laid off & now that I'm looking for a new gig I have free time for him. Finally I was able to fool around with him, we had crazy sex he was happy now all of a sudden BOOM. He's ignoring me all of a sudden has no time, entirely too busy with work, not returning my calls, Is it just me or is he kind of being petty ? OR am I being selfish? I'm also realizing he won't fully commit either because he doesn't feel like he has to which is my fault, but I'm not understanding why he feels entitled to my free time when technically HE doesn't call me his girlfriend. Soooooooo confused with this, I'm currently being ignored but I feel like its some kind of payback. I don't get why a guy would just hang around me like this for 6 years, he's always hurt when I end things & try to move on. I don't get this at all.
wisernow Posted April 8, 2013 Posted April 8, 2013 You two need to have a discussion. No one here really knows what's going on in his head. Make a lunch or dinner date and tell him your concerns and what you'd like the relationship to look like. Good luck.
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