Kaiten Posted April 8, 2013 Posted April 8, 2013 I am looking for a girl who has a pretty similar personality to mine. Where i live, I have yet to even come close. Rather than list what i want, I am going to tell you my qualities that i value in myself, and perhaps you all can tell me where girls like me tend to be found? That would be awesome! 1) People tell me i am funny a lot 2) I have passion! And people can tell when they meet me! 3) I take care of my body. I stay in shape. 4) Charismatic! and i like to project my influence to those around me. (I dont particularly need a gf who does that, just one who appreciates it) 5) I dont have a college degree. (Not a quality im looking for, just pertinent information) 6) Im a life long learner. I focus on improving myself a lot! 7) Adventurous! I like trying new things! 8) Hobbies are cool! I have hobbies and i would want her to have her own that i could learn about and take an interest in, though not because i think hers would be cool, I just think thats a great way to show someone you love and care for them! I would love to meet a girl with a resume like that! Is there a particular state or area in the US i need to move to where i would be more likely to find females with drive and passion?
Author Kaiten Posted April 8, 2013 Author Posted April 8, 2013 I hope somebody responds soon. I really am beginning to believe im looking for a girl who doesnt exist 1
WhoreyBull Posted April 9, 2013 Posted April 9, 2013 What sort of activities do you do in your city? It sounds like you are a fun, active guy. Why aren't you meeting people doing fun active things? Where are the hobbies? A quick search of your area online will reveal countless possible dating pools I am sure. Does the local university offer any extension courses you might be into taking, perhaps a language? There could be a cute life-long learner looking to habla espanol, and you just might end up doing the lambata. Other options include fitness clubs, volunteer run-a-thons, charity drives, local events. Just by getting involved in your community you'll meet a lot of women who are outgoing. The issue is finding the right one! haha 1
todreaminblue Posted April 9, 2013 Posted April 9, 2013 I am looking for a girl who has a pretty similar personality to mine. Where i live, I have yet to even come close. Rather than list what i want, I am going to tell you my qualities that i value in myself, and perhaps you all can tell me where girls like me tend to be found? That would be awesome! 1) People tell me i am funny a lot 2) I have passion! And people can tell when they meet me! 3) I take care of my body. I stay in shape. 4) Charismatic! and i like to project my influence to those around me. (I dont particularly need a gf who does that, just one who appreciates it) 5) I dont have a college degree. (Not a quality im looking for, just pertinent information) 6) Im a life long learner. I focus on improving myself a lot! 7) Adventurous! I like trying new things! 8) Hobbies are cool! I have hobbies and i would want her to have her own that i could learn about and take an interest in, though not because i think hers would be cool, I just think thats a great way to show someone you love and care for them! I would love to meet a girl with a resume like that! Is there a particular state or area in the US i need to move to where i would be more likely to find females with drive and passion? australia....haahhahhaha .......ahem 1
Author Kaiten Posted April 9, 2013 Author Posted April 9, 2013 Ah WhoreyBull that is quite a start you have given me. The girls i meet are mostly at college and at church. But the college is a community college. So all the girls from church go there
ooglesnboogles Posted April 9, 2013 Posted April 9, 2013 I'd say the "Activities" section of your local bookstore? Might find a girl who's adventurous and hangs around bookstores. I dunno, I was having trouble finding girls I was interested in. But I've loosened up just a tad to make sure I'm not being too specific, and also I've found a few new places to meet great, interesting girls. Don't lose hope! They're out there!
RogerWallace111 Posted April 9, 2013 Posted April 9, 2013 So your looking for a girl with passion for actual cool stuff eh ? Good luck All joking aside most people are just boring. And finding an actually funny girl is f*ckin tough. If your list had been : loves the HBO series "Girls" and "Game of Thrones", enjoys gossiping with friends for lack of worthwhile personal insight, and gets upset for days at a time over petty, meaningless sh*t - you'd be in serious luck 1
TanSan Posted April 10, 2013 Posted April 10, 2013 Roger you aint neva lying Don't lose hope Kaiten, you'll meet her. Have you considered long distance dating? It's tough, but it may be an option you could consider. 1
SarcasticAbby Posted April 10, 2013 Posted April 10, 2013 Have you tried Meetup? I haven't done it but I've only heard good reviews. 1
Author Kaiten Posted April 13, 2013 Author Posted April 13, 2013 Thank you guys, i have yet to try either of those last two options. I'll look them up!
h3braica Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 we're having the same problem Kaiten. like you, i feel that the man i want doesn't exist or he turned out to be gay so i am destined to be alone forever. i am on my middle age and it worries me a lot.
Author Kaiten Posted April 13, 2013 Author Posted April 13, 2013 Its a tough place to be. But dont settle. If i may ask. What kind of man are you looking for?
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