NervisPervis Posted April 11, 2013 Posted April 11, 2013 I watch lesbian porn and I am not a lesbian. There is a double standard with men watching gay porn. I wonder sometimes if people don't just spew this crap to make a point even though they know it's not true. It is pretty well document that there is a fluidity of sexuality in women that just does not translate into the male world. Most researchers would agee that a woman could watch lesbian porn, even make-out with a woman, or more, and still be hetero. A man sucks another man's tongue, he's gay. PERIOD. It has NOTHING to do with a double standard. And cupping a man's junk in public is gay. No gray area there.
analystfromhell Posted April 12, 2013 Posted April 12, 2013 He may not have realized or consciously recognized his sexual preferences when you started your relationship but it seems like it might time to have that talk. In the meanwhile he may have begun to recognize his attraction towards this particular guy but since it seems to come out when he's drinking, perhaps he's still repressing the attraction. Unless this other guy returns the attraction and the two of them are caught in an affair or around other gays or in counselling it's VERY unlikely he's going to fully admit it to himself. Your challenging him on it seems unlikely (to me) to cause him to admit his preference but who knows... It should definitely be discussed with him as it seems pretty obvious to me (source: grew up in lesbian household with plenty of gay friends but not gay or even pan myself- your husband is probably pan but now in a gay phase- people often move from one side of the spectrum to the other)
summerdowling87 Posted April 13, 2013 Posted April 13, 2013 Well I've been drunk (really drunk) many times and I never felt up another woman. Now I've made out with guys while I was drunk but never a woman.
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