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Why do you say that?

 

 

It's me for god's sake

 

 

I'm completely invisible to women. Do you know who you're talking to?

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:laugh:

It's me for god's sake

 

 

I'm completely invisible to women. Do you know who you're talking to?

 

Um, no. Are you some mutant cursed with invisibility? Women can not see you?

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Mario Lopez built like a linebacker who makes 200k a year and drives a fancy car can't get a woman.

 

 

I make low 100s, not quite 200K though I will have that in time as I'm still young

 

 

As far as my Mario Lopez comment goes, here is an exact quote from Phoenix Rising (a very attractive hispanic woman)

 

 

I was actually quite curious as to what you looked like as well. You are very cute in a Mario Lopez kind of way.

 

 

I have gotten that several times in real life too :cool:

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:laugh:

 

Um, no. Are you some mutant cursed with invisibility? Women can not see you?

 

 

 

No girl anywhere near my age who is halfway attractive can see me

 

 

I suppose I've gotten some signs of interest/even outright approaches in the past from women who are way older than me/overweight/unattractive but I don't really count that as anything

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Oh dear. Is this his claim?

 

 

That's pretty accurate. I've gotten Mario Lopez comparisons at least 5 to 10 times in my life. I am about the size of your average NFL linebacker (just a little shorter) and yea I make a lot of money and have a nice car

 

 

None of that **** means a damn thing though. I'm incredibly lonely

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No girl anywhere near my age who is halfway attractive can see me

 

 

I suppose I've gotten some signs of interest/even outright approaches in the past from women who are way older than me/overweight/unattractive but I don't really count that as anything

 

That's funny. When I approached my now husband, he was 24 and I was 31. We are still together 8 years later and very happy. Glad he didn't turn his nose up at me because of my age.

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That's funny. When I approached my now husband, he was 24 and I was 31. We are still together 8 years later and very happy. Glad he didn't turn his nose up at me because of my age.

 

:laugh:

 

I can assure you I would never turn my nose up at somebody like you

 

When I say way older - I'm talking 20 years older. The cougars tend to like me quite a bit. I don't mind having sex with women like that but that's just not dating material

 

I would date somebody within 5-10 years of my age...hell I would be 10 times more concerned that somebody like you would not be interested in me than vice versa

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Same here anytime i get rejected it reaffirms to me that im ugly and boring.

 

Im crippled by fear i hardly ever approach women.

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If this is a genetic problem (meaning you wont get rid of the problem) the best way is to not put yourself in the situation to make you feel that way.

 

I dont do things i dont like a possible result of...

 

So i dont skydive as i might die

I dont ride sports motorbikes as i might crash

I dont ask women for sex (dates) as they might say no

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If this is a genetic problem (meaning you wont get rid of the problem) the best way is to not put yourself in the situation to make you feel that way.

 

I dont do things i dont like a possible result of...

 

So i dont skydive as i might die

I dont ride sports motorbikes as i might crash

I dont ask women for sex (dates) as they might say no

 

 

That's not a good solution, mainly because I can't spend the rest of my life using porn as the only source of female companionship

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I can't spend the rest of my life using porn as the only source of female companionship

 

Well technology had made some pretty huge advances in the last few years chief! I mean with real dolls, interactive porn etc., things are only going to get more... exciting in the years to come.

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Well technology had made some pretty huge advances in the last few years chief! I mean with real dolls, interactive porn etc., things are only going to get more... exciting in the years to come.

 

:laugh:

 

you're not helping

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That's not a good solution, mainly because I can't spend the rest of my life using porn as the only source of female companionship

 

Maybe so, tough life, i know many people who watch motor sports as they just wont risk getting hurt.

 

I know many other people who pay for sex as they dont want to be hurt.

 

I also know others who will never fly as they dont want to be in a crash.

 

Not all people are the same, there are certain things you cant get over, or if your willing to pay for some real medical help you might be able to get over with alot of money at hand.

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Maybe so, tough life, i know many people who watch motor sports as they just wont risk getting hurt.

 

I know many other people who pay for sex as they dont want to be hurt.

 

I also know others who will never fly as they dont want to be in a crash.

 

Not all people are the same, there are certain things you cant get over, or if your willing to pay for some real medical help you might be able to get over with alot of money at hand.

 

 

You can't compare extreme things to common things

 

 

Everybody finds somebody. I don't know too many people who are forever alone their entire life

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Same here anytime i get rejected it reaffirms to me that im ugly and boring.

 

Im crippled by fear i hardly ever approach women.

 

I know the feeling. I haven't even kissed a woman since my divorce over 2 years ago. I've never been able to approach women because I know I'll get blown off due to being ugly and overweight. Been on some first dates off websites and then instant NC after the date after they saw me in person.

 

I've pretty much come to the conclusion that I'm too ugly to date (yes, it is possible) so I've given up on even attempting to. I feel my life is better now that I've accepted my fate.

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I know the feeling. I haven't even kissed a woman since my divorce over 2 years ago. I've never been able to approach women because I know I'll get blown off due to being ugly and overweight. Been on some first dates off websites and then instant NC after the date after they saw me in person.

 

I've pretty much come to the conclusion that I'm too ugly to date (yes, it is possible) so I've given up on even attempting to. I feel my life is better now that I've accepted my fate.

 

 

 

How do you get dates off sites if you are overweight and ugly? Do you just have an incredible sense of humor and wit that translates to online dating?

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who cares if they like you or not? some will some won't. just move on with your life. i don't even think to much about the women who shoot me down.

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