SJC2008 Posted April 8, 2013 Posted April 8, 2013 I texted the lady from the bar today and made small talk, then I told her I'd call her later tonight as I was at work and she said ok. When I called it went strait to VM lol! I'm thinking she was looking to hookup that night and I blew my window, whatever! I'm just tired of things going nowhere... More of a rant thread than anything but if anyone wants to chime in with questions or comments feel free.
Poppy fields Posted April 8, 2013 Posted April 8, 2013 Maybe she had to have her appendix removed. Hopefully she will get back to you soon. Did you leave a message? 1
Author SJC2008 Posted April 8, 2013 Author Posted April 8, 2013 Maybe she had to have her appendix removed. Hopefully she will get back to you soon. Did you leave a message? Lol I hope not... I did leave a VM. It just seems strane that when you tell someone you're going to call them and their phone goes strait to VM. Looks like it's time to take a hint.
Poppy fields Posted April 8, 2013 Posted April 8, 2013 Lol I hope not... I did leave a VM. It just seems strane that when you tell someone you're going to call them and their phone goes strait to VM. Looks like it's time to take a hint. Not necessarily yet. Just because she wasn't waiting around for you to call her doesn't mean she isn't interested. Now, if you don't get a call back in a couple of days... that might be a different story. It sucks. I know. 1
RachR Posted April 8, 2013 Posted April 8, 2013 Did it ring even once? If I call someone and it goes straight to voicemail I figure their phone is either off or died. 1
Lani Posted April 8, 2013 Posted April 8, 2013 Maybe her battery went flat. Or she dropped her phone in the toilet. Or her dog ate it along with her homework. Perhaps she's just busy washing her hair. Point is, you have no idea why it went to voicemail. Take it easy. 2
Author SJC2008 Posted April 8, 2013 Author Posted April 8, 2013 It didn't ring at all so it's not like she seen the call and ignored it. I called about 8:45 our time I don't think that's too late. I wish I could take it easy but when you're success rate is almost non existant, you become very fragile.
Lani Posted April 8, 2013 Posted April 8, 2013 It didn't ring at all so it's not like she seen the call and ignored it. I called about 8:45 our time I don't think that's too late. I wish I could take it easy but when you're success rate is almost non existant, you become very fragile. Yeah, so if it didn't ring at all then there are plenty of reasons why she may not have called back yet. Give it time.
Ninjainpajamas Posted April 8, 2013 Posted April 8, 2013 So this is what happened... There was this tank... It turned down the street facing her from the opposite direction... There was a group helpless ugly children that will probably be on welfare or drug addicts but are worth saving nonetheless, even though their children are likely to be on welfare and drain the state... anyway, the point is they deserve to live... so the tank fired an HE round...that's a high explosive round, it would definitely decimate the group of helpless future criminal children.. But she reacted quickly, throwing her phone at the barrel of the tank.. The round exploded on impact Using her superpowers she created a protective bubble around herself and the children.. however such a feat has drained her essence power (derived from menstruation).. she's currently in the hospital....a hero before falling into a deep sleep out of exhaustion...she uttered "I hope he'll still call me...probably....went....to...voice...maaaaillll ::gasp:: So don't worry...it's all going to work out. 2
Author SJC2008 Posted April 9, 2013 Author Posted April 9, 2013 Ok so she texts me tonight how's it going at 10pm. I texted her back about an hour later when I got home from work, asked how she was and she said good and about to go to bed. Her personality doen't transgress via text, she's very brief etc. I feel like she's humoring but that could be my insecurity. Anyway, I'm pretty confused now. I know she was intersested in me when we first met. She walked right past my friend and introduced herself to me, touched my arms a few times during convo and told my friend that she likes red heads right in front of me. Then when I asked her for her # she said I didn't seem interested and was too old for me as stated in my last thread. I thought she was blowing off but she finally texts back and is brief. What is up with this woman? What should I do?
ImperfectionisBeauty Posted April 9, 2013 Posted April 9, 2013 That happened to me, I met a guy at a bar and we exchanged numbers and he never replied to my texts then like a month later he randomly texts me and is like hey do you remember me? I did and I responded then he never answered.. what a doucher.
Lani Posted April 9, 2013 Posted April 9, 2013 Ok so she texts me tonight how's it going at 10pm. I texted her back about an hour later when I got home from work, asked how she was and she said good and about to go to bed. Her personality doen't transgress via text, she's very brief etc. I feel like she's humoring but that could be my insecurity. Anyway, I'm pretty confused now. I know she was intersested in me when we first met. She walked right past my friend and introduced herself to me, touched my arms a few times during convo and told my friend that she likes red heads right in front of me. Then when I asked her for her # she said I didn't seem interested and was too old for me as stated in my last thread. I thought she was blowing off but she finally texts back and is brief. What is up with this woman? What should I do? What should you do? Ask her out. She'll either say yes, or blow you off.
Author SJC2008 Posted April 9, 2013 Author Posted April 9, 2013 (edited) Too much correspondence in one day, imo. Yes, games suck, but I've found that following the "rules" (and, of course, breaking them when necessary) will lead you to more success. Wait a couple of days, then try to set up a hang out. Also, what were the texts like? Flirty? Forced? "How was your day" type stuff? Also also, what was the interaction like at the bar? Did you kiss her? Spend a lot of time with her? You need to give us more information if you want a truly good response. I somewhat followed the "rules". We met on a thursday and I texted her sun. I don't think it was too much correspondence. I texted her to feel her out to see if she'd respond. I just asked her how her weekend was going and she said good, was with her kids and I said sounds good I'll give you a call later tonight then and se said ok. Mabye I should of just called? For background check my didn't show interest thread in my profile... Edited April 9, 2013 by SJC2008
Poppy fields Posted April 9, 2013 Posted April 9, 2013 I don't think she would have texted you if she wasn't interested. She could have just never talked to you again. Maybe she is into taking things slow and is very busy at the moment. As long as she is initiating contact, I wouldn't give up hope just yet.
Author SJC2008 Posted April 10, 2013 Author Posted April 10, 2013 Ok so I texted her asking her out tomorrow (normally I'd call but she texted back to my first phone call in the OP). Anwyway she said she's going out with her gf's but thanks. I told her you're welcome the invites out there so if you want to get together just let me know, take care. She texted back I will, take care with a wink face at the end of it? This woman threw me for a friggin loop guys. I just can't win, I feel like there's some higher power out there keeping me single:(
reaver Posted April 10, 2013 Posted April 10, 2013 No worries SJC. You seem like a great guy. Any woman who rejects you isnt right for you and doesnt deserve your kindess and heart. Thats how you should view it. Shes missing out. Rejection weeds out those that are incompatible with you
Author SJC2008 Posted April 10, 2013 Author Posted April 10, 2013 No worries SJC. You seem like a great guy. Any woman who rejects you isnt right for you and doesnt deserve your kindess and heart. Thats how you should view it. Shes missing out. Rejection weeds out those that are incompatible with you Thanks for the kind words. The problem is rejection wears you down more and more and makes me more insecure. I know this woman was interested by the way she came up to me and the way she flirted with me. If you seen the other thread she said I didn't show interest when I asked for her #. I don't know what I was supposed to do? Interrupt my friend and start my own convo with her? I'm not going to do that. My money is on she was looking for a ONS.
Author SJC2008 Posted April 10, 2013 Author Posted April 10, 2013 I'm tired of women and their windows. A couple of weeks before I met this one I met another one at the same bar. We were talking and stuff and I said come on let's dance and she put her hands up like I was being pushy. So with one woman I'm pushy and another I didn't show enough interest lol. Women and their windows WTF?? 1
Green Light Posted April 10, 2013 Posted April 10, 2013 Welcome to the club my friend! Most things in my life go nowhere and fizzle out. It doesn't matter if I try hard to make it work, do all the "right" things, follow the "rules" or don't care at all. It always ends the same! And I agree about women and their "windows." If you are going to have these limited windows where you want something, like, right now, then at least spell it out and make it known what you want! Geesh! I think they enjoy making men play the guessing game.
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