man_in_the_box Posted April 8, 2013 Posted April 8, 2013 Actually, on a scale of 1-10, 5 would be average. lol That's what he means. He said that they say 7 to not have to say 5 to be polite. 1
ltjg45 Posted April 8, 2013 Posted April 8, 2013 My attraction range? It's simply really. Tier 1: Not Physically Attractive Tier 2: OKish looking. Tier 3: Physically Attractive. Tier 4: Drop-Dead Gorgeous. I tend to go for the "OK-ish Looking" and "Physically Attractive" women. I don't approach the "Not Physically Attractive" and I'm terrified of the demands/expectations from the "Drop-Dead Gorgeous" women so I avoid them out of fear.
Trimmer Posted April 8, 2013 Posted April 8, 2013 You missed my point. If she hadnt put her rating/looks number this thread wouldnt be about her personality, it would be about her looks and discussion around that. I think she didnt want to her "youre lying you cant be that pretty" OK, so she starts out with, essentially "Looks aren't my problem." Then later she says, directly "Personality is not my problem." Then we find out that she's actually finding people (personal trainer, dorky quiet guy), so obviously finding raw material to date is not the problem. If discussing any of those aspects is off the table, I don't think we've got a lot to talk about, then. We don't have a lot to go on, but she sounds kinda "high-gain" to me - a small to medium sized input provokes an inordinately big reaction. (I'd like this thread deleted, and I'm leaving this site because you're all haters...)
Roadkill007 Posted April 8, 2013 Posted April 8, 2013 I get rated by men anywhere from 7-9 on looks, usually a 7 or 8. Yet people tell me in real life that Im beautiful and should have no problems finding a guy to like me for other than my body. I have had several people tell me I could "get any man I want." This hasnt been 1 or 2 people, I am talking like, at least 10 people have said this to me. Perhaps this is because of my personality? I tend to have a very straightforward super honest personality, most people find that to be more funny than anything, but can be nice and sweet to those I like. So my personality affects them saying stuff like that is what Im thinking, or they are over exaggerating my looks. I find it hard to find a guy who likes me enough to be my boyfriend. I get dates easily and I guess men crush on me easily but very few of them turn into boyfriend scenarios. The last boyfriend I had was a very detached person in general too. I am 24. Just a question. Do your female friends find you as funny as your male friends? If the answer is no, chances are the guys are laughing because they want to get in your graces. If the answer is yes... I'm thinking in the wrong direction entirely 1
mortensorchid Posted April 8, 2013 Posted April 8, 2013 You would think that just because a woman is anywhere from pretty to ravishing that it would be easy for them to get a man. The truth is that you will get superficial attention, but don't hold your breath for more substance than that. Many wonder why it is that the man with a beautiful woman on his arm ends up going for a much less attractive woman. The reason is because men are far more insecure than they would let you think they are. I never cease to be amazed that there are a lot of good women out there who are alone or who have been dumped because they truly think that the woman is too good for him, and therefor go for a less attractive, far trashier woman because they feel more secure with trashy than classy. It's a fact of life. 3
phineas Posted April 8, 2013 Posted April 8, 2013 You would think that just because a woman is anywhere from pretty to ravishing that it would be easy for them to get a man. The truth is that you will get superficial attention, but don't hold your breath for more substance than that. Many wonder why it is that the man with a beautiful woman on his arm ends up going for a much less attractive woman. The reason is because men are far more insecure than they would let you think they are. I never cease to be amazed that there are a lot of good women out there who are alone or who have been dumped because they truly think that the woman is too good for him, and therefor go for a less attractive, far trashier woman because they feel more secure with trashy than classy. It's a fact of life. LOL! sorry but if a guy drops a hot woman with a supposedly great personality for someone less attractive & less personable it isn't because he thought the first one was too good for him. It's because she is: Boring selfish has princess syndrome dumb no future when it comes to a job or education cray cray. Or any number of reasons other than looks & personality that women insist men don't consider but actually do when it comes to relationships. And, ever wonder whenever a woman is dropped for another woman, the new woman is automatically considered a "slut" no matter what? Is that in some rule book somewhere? 1
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