shorty1963 Posted September 14, 2004 Posted September 14, 2004 Here is my story, I am a single ladt that has been working at my job for a long time, well this new married guy has been working there for almost a year now, well we have become friends and we talk and do not work in the same department. Well letely he has been more than friendly to me and trying to hold my hand and rubbing against me and that tells me ( i think) that he wants to be more than friends (If you know what i mean). He has not asked me to meet him anywhere or anything else.But i have the feeling that i need to back off from my friend. But i need to know how to go about doing this ? Since we are friends and talk he will want to know why i am avoiding him or not talking to him. What do i say to him ? I know he has been married for more than 30 years.he used to talk to me about his wife, but not lately. Hell they might be seperated for all i know.I know he is not happy with her and have been wanting a divorce for a while now. Thanks so much !! I have never been in this situation before and i do have feelings for this friend and i know he is trying to be more than friends.
littlome Posted September 15, 2004 Posted September 15, 2004 I would just ask, there is no other way that you can find out. alot of the time you can find out through actions and sence it all , with this one if you are unsure then ask him what his intension are. If you are not comfortable with his intensions then allow him to know this right away. It is hard for people to approch another for him to be doing this and you not saying stop he might take that the wrong way AGAIN just ask!!! Best of luck
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