SmileFace Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 When you say hook up ... you mean make the ex fling's sibling your new fling? Gross much
Author ShellyGrahams Posted April 8, 2013 Author Posted April 8, 2013 Wrong choice of words...I meant would you ever "date"an ex-fling's sibling?
SmileFace Posted April 8, 2013 Posted April 8, 2013 Wrong choice of words...I meant would you ever "date"an ex-fling's sibling? What are you guys ages? When was this fling? What did you do? My answer will be hell no either way
Author ShellyGrahams Posted April 8, 2013 Author Posted April 8, 2013 im 20 and my ex fling's sibling is 28.The fling (his cousin)and I kissed a year ago exactly. Nothing more, Nothing less. Actually, He lead me on and I broke it off and never spoke to him again. So, Technically it wasn't really a fling but what-the-hell."
todreaminblue Posted April 8, 2013 Posted April 8, 2013 Wrong choice of words...I meant would you ever "date"an ex-fling's sibling? never...plus ten wrong on many levels
Author ShellyGrahams Posted April 8, 2013 Author Posted April 8, 2013 Please elaborate. I would like to be enlightened
tbf Posted April 8, 2013 Posted April 8, 2013 When you say hook up ... you mean make the ex fling's sibling your new fling? Gross muchWhy is this gross? Since flings usually source from physical attraction instead of real emotions, I'm not seeing any need to shelter or protect feelings that weren't there in the first place.
SmileFace Posted April 8, 2013 Posted April 8, 2013 Why is this gross? Since flings usually source from physical attraction instead of real emotions, I'm not seeing any need to shelter or protect feelings that weren't there in the first place. Umm... that was under the assumption if she banged one sibling(ie: brother, sister ) and wanted to bang their sister or brother. Yes, gross. Which is totally different from the real story of a cousin and a fling being a kiss.
tbf Posted April 8, 2013 Posted April 8, 2013 Umm... that was under the assumption if she banged one sibling(ie: brother, sister ) and wanted to bang their sister or brother. Yes, gross.Why would this be gross? It's not as if flings are meaningful or it's incest if you bang different siblings. Maybe they have a hot-looking family. Which is totally different from the real story of a cousin and a fling being a kiss.Yes, the real story of a kiss with the fling, where the relative is a cousin of the fling, just puts this situation into the category of WTH has morality got anything to do with this?
SmileFace Posted April 8, 2013 Posted April 8, 2013 Why would this be gross? It's not as if flings are meaningful or it's incest if you bang different siblings. Maybe they have a hot-looking family. Yes, the real story of a kiss with the fling, where the relative is a cousin of the fling, just puts this situation into the category of WTH has morality got anything to do with this? I am sorry it is gross to fu ck siblings in my POV. I don't see how morality has to do with any part of the story. I still wouldn't do it though.
tbf Posted April 8, 2013 Posted April 8, 2013 I am sorry it is gross to fu ck siblings in my POV. I don't see how morality has to do with any part of the story. I still wouldn't do it though.I'm curious about your visceral negative reaction. Can you explain why, considering the unemotional nature of a fling?
SmileFace Posted April 8, 2013 Posted April 8, 2013 I'm curious about your visceral negative reaction. Can you explain why, considering the unemotional nature of a fling? I really don't see how my reaction was visceral. Just because you don't agree with me, it doens't make my response any less reasonable. However I don't think building a relationship on something like this will turn out good. It causes people to talk and it also may cause jealousy. Plus I wouldn't date someone who my family member had a take at. It is gross to me.
tbf Posted April 8, 2013 Posted April 8, 2013 Gross much My answer will be hell no either way Umm... that was under the assumption if she banged one sibling(ie: brother, sister ) and wanted to bang their sister or brother. Yes, gross. I am sorry it is gross to fu ck siblings in my POV. I really don't see how my reaction was visceral. Just because you don't agree with me, it doens't make my response any less reasonable.The above emotive language sounds pretty visceral to me. As far as your response being any less reasonable, that's why I'm curious and asking, since I don't understand the underpinnings to your reaction. However I don't think building a relationship on something like this will turn out good. It causes people to talk and it also may cause jealousy. Plus I wouldn't date someone who my family member had a take at. It is gross to me. You can't control where, when and what people will gossip about. Quite often, gossip doesn't align with reality. Also, why jealousy if there were no emotions involved in the first place within the nature of flings (NSA sex)? We're not talking about an ex-relationship partner where I also wouldn't recommend it, in consideration for your ex-partner's feelings. But why is it gross to you? This is what I'm trying to understand.
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