TheFriend Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 I don't know what happened, but this weekend has really really set me back. It has been about 2.5 months since she left me and I have been doing good. Then bam.... All of the mean things she has said post breakup don't seem to effect me. I just miss her... I should hate the girl but I miss her. Has anyone else had this set back after they thought they were recovered?
iouaname Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 Sure! Trust the process. Sometimes you're just going to recycle the feelings. There are things that I thought I was over at one point or another that bothered me more when I thought about them later. 2
McGriff Posted April 8, 2013 Posted April 8, 2013 Yeah, weekends have been the worst times for me as well. I'm about 6 weeks out from BU, but the weekends are getting better at a painfully slow rate. I have no idea what she's up to or what's going on in her life, and it's probably better that way. I like to think on the flip side, she also has no idea what I'm up to, and since she human, it's gotta be affecting her too. At the worst times, I just call up a friend or hang out with my kids and it passes the time. Keep your head up, and continue to muddle through it, you are gonna be just fine!!
Echo000 Posted April 8, 2013 Posted April 8, 2013 oh ya weekends suck in the beginning..u wonder what they are doing/who they are with..if they are hooking up with someone else/having fun without you..etc. All B.S mind crap. Weekends get easier with time, trust me. Keep marching 1
Author TheFriend Posted April 8, 2013 Author Posted April 8, 2013 Appreciate it guys! I had a really fun weekend actually but damnit just really got hit hard laying in bed at night.
mtnbiker3000 Posted April 8, 2013 Posted April 8, 2013 Hate weekends right now. But I agree. The ex is human, and has got to be feeling a little bit of the same medicine. Especially if you remain NC. If you break NC, then you lose that tiny piece of control over the situation. I have been NC for 3 weeks Got a small breadcrumb today. I wasn't sure at first, but then after I thought about it, I realized, yup, that's a breadcrumb. She texted me asking about when Direct TV would send the return box for the TV equip., and if I wanted the cookies that I left in the freezer. Then followed with the hope you are OK, crap... Very crafty of her. Ask question that she thinks I must respond to. Force me to respond. Well, guess again Don't know when Direct TV box will arrive. Gets there when it gets there. And, obviously I left the cookies behind when I got the rest of my crap and returned the key, so toss 'em. Not responding to this 3
cavalier99 Posted April 8, 2013 Posted April 8, 2013 Sure. Many times i could be perfeclty fine with an aspect of the BU then be incredibly pissed about the same thing. Then feel all forgiving and undstanding about it, then sad, then angry again and back to not caring. Then id move on to anothe aspect of the RS or BU or convesation and do it all over again. Sometime all in the same day! Welcome to the emotional roller coaster!
Author TheFriend Posted April 8, 2013 Author Posted April 8, 2013 Lol good thinking. That def sounds like breadcrumbs. Toss the effing cookies lol, why would she even ask about that hahaha. I would have caved and sent a MSG back! I wonder when the hell i will stop having that weakness.
mtnbiker3000 Posted April 8, 2013 Posted April 8, 2013 Lol good thinking. That def sounds like breadcrumbs. Toss the effing cookies lol, why would she even ask about that hahaha. I would have caved and sent a MSG back! I wonder when the hell i will stop having that weakness. Well, my mom made them for me before she passed away in December. I'm sure that's why she asking and why she thinks I would definitely respond. But again to her I say (think), if I left them, then I don't want them
mtnbiker3000 Posted April 8, 2013 Posted April 8, 2013 Sure. Many times i could be perfeclty fine with an aspect of the BU then be incredibly pissed about the same thing. Then feel all forgiving and undstanding about it, then sad, then angry again and back to not caring. Then id move on to anothe aspect of the RS or BU or convesation and do it all over again. Sometime all in the same day! Welcome to the emotional roller coaster! I want to get off Seriously, I do this exact same thing. Cycle through the whole range of emotions and back again. Then on to the next memory on deck...
OwlSoul Posted April 8, 2013 Posted April 8, 2013 Heh, heard my ex (male) saying 'I love you' to a random guy we were playing with. I (female) felt a bit upset for 2-3 minutes, then the feeling has gone
Author TheFriend Posted April 8, 2013 Author Posted April 8, 2013 The extreme memory roller coaster park. Step right up, get mind f****d. I have heard they are bringing electro shock therapy back:) only problem is you may forget other things.
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