lillie7571 Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 (edited) So I met a guy online and had my first date with him yesterday. We went to get ice cream and see a scary movie. While at the ice cream place, we talked and things seemed to go smoothly. In my opinion, the talking was very easy and smooth, nothing forced. We had a lot of interests in common. The time flew by when we were talking. I interrupted that we should leave so we could get to our movie on time. He didn't try to make any moves during the movie, so I guess that's a bad sign? He did request that we could talk after the movie and we talked for 2 hours. I honestly thought everything was going well, and I thought he was enjoying the date. He was telling me a story and I asked about it, and he stated that it would be a great story for next time, which I then asked if it was safe to assume there would be a next time and he asked if I wanted there to be, which I replied yes. While talking, he said that he had told me things that he had never told anyone else before. I really felt like it was a good date. I finally had to leave (because of my parents wanting me home-- which may have been a turn off). He walked me to my car, said that he had a good time and wanted to do it again, gave me a hug, and said he would text me in the morning. I haven't heard from him. I thought it was a great date, but now looking back at it maybe I said something he disliked or there was no attraction. Any thoughts? Also, his longest relationship is less than 2 months. He works 2 jobs and is very busy, and he usually dates much older women. That's about all the additional information I can come up with. Edited April 7, 2013 by lillie7571 1
pbjbear Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 The date itself sounds good. Longest relationship is 2 months? Thats a bad sign. How old are you guys? Time will tell darlin'. 1
Author lillie7571 Posted April 7, 2013 Author Posted April 7, 2013 20. My longest relationship was 4 years. I am just not sure if he isn't interested or if he is interested and waiting to communicate, even though he said he would text me this morning. It just doesn't make sense to me. I don't understand why someone would say that if they had no interest in seeing me again, or why they would spend so much time talking to me if they weren't interested :/
greenetree Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 It sounds like you are late teens or at the oldest early 20s? Is it possible he is just shy? I'd wait until the day after he said he'd text you. If he doesn't, you can text him if you really like him or just move on...
Author lillie7571 Posted April 7, 2013 Author Posted April 7, 2013 (edited) He did say that he's shy, but he also said he would text me in the morning before I left. I don't really see why he would say that unless he was wanting to talk to me more, but I guess there's a good possibility that he just wasn't interested. Just confused on how he feels and want other people's opinions :/ Edited April 8, 2013 by lillie7571
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