Is there something wrong with my physical appearance?

[bball2079]

None of the girls seem really attarcted to me so i'm wondering if its my physical appearance. Since i'm usually most of the time an all around nice person and a careing person to. So i'm just wondering and all.

[Touch_of_Naughtiness]

What do you mean by none? Are you telling me that no girls show any kind of interest in you?

[Karlise13]

It's probably just a confidence thing.

 

Maybe you just need more practice talking to girls and hanging with them.

 

Note: NEVER try too hard. It's a turn off. Just enjoy being who you are, take good care of your body and treat people well without being 'too' nice.

 

The rest will take care of itself.

[bball2079]

Touch_of_Naughtiness um yeah pretty much i'll get the occasional hello or hi from one or two girls but other than that there really isn't anything else.

[kellydontwanttasleep]

do some martial arts that builds confidence and just be youself and open up with girls. we love it when you talk to us.

[Touch_of_Naughtiness]

Originally posted by kellydontwanttasleep

do some martial arts that builds confidence and just be youself and open up with girls. we love it when you talk to us.

 

this is so true!

 

Also flirt, maybe you seem too nice and not much of a casanova

[Mr Spock]

It depends on what KIND of girl you want attracted to you. Do you want a mellow, laid back kind of girl or a mover-and-shaker take no prisoners gal? Martial Arts is a good idea, weight lifting-anything that helps build your confidence. You may just be one of those guys that really doesn't start to be knee deep in poontang until your early 30's.

[blue17]

you seem like a nice guy from the posts you've made. However....don't confuse being nice w/ being a pushover....they are two entirely different things.

 

I'll just comment on your looks in an honest opinion....that's what you are looking for right? You are okay looking (okay to good) but a couple things that you could improve upon. But you look good enough for it not to be a problem.

 

1) i dunno about those glasses......you could either switch to contacts or maybe get a new frame. I think the fairly thick black ones (not super thick!)are cool looking. I tried on a pair of a girl(friend) and she said they looked really good really good on me. (so i'm guessing they would look good on a lot of guys.) Just by changing/removing the glasses you can do a lot with your appearance and convey a new image/first impression.

 

2) your overall appearance seems to be slightly geeky. Not like hardcore nerd or anything.....but just a hint of it. (the glasses might be the cause of that). Whether you act geeky or not....girls might get a wrong first impression due to implanted stereotypes we have. Yes I know its bad....but that's how society works.

 

You seem to have a good structure...like not skinny or not fat.....medium. If you lift weights....this can go a long way to make you look muscular and in shape. You won't have to worry about looking too thin or super bulky.....so I would suggest hit the gym. It builds your confidence and you look a lot better....you can't lose!

 

Remember appearance is very important for the first impression....but afterwards it's mostly personality.

[bball2079]

well that was an older picture of me and i didn't really have a new one at the moment when i posted this but yeah i do wear contacts now and i'm differently going to start doing something like weight lifting. I'll also post a newer picture of me as soon as i can.