enforcer Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 I am 24, was in a relationship with a 24 year old girl for about 1.5 years till about yesterday. Things started to go bad two weeks ago when she asked for space after we argued over something mundane. Last night we went to a dance, after which she came back and told me this would not work. Problem is she did the same thing a few months ago, and I was heartbroken. However I got some self-help books and got over her. She later came back and begged and cried to take her back and so I did. Now when she does this, my whole world is falling apart again. I am supposed to meet her today in a few hours, and I desperately want her to take me back. I just don't know what to say or what to do... Finals are a week from now and I cannot get anything done... I am fairly athletic guy, on the soccer team, play guitar, and president of my S.G.A...and still feel like my worlds crashing around me...
Cram1660 Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 Hey man I know what your going through I went through the exact same thing this year. My ex of 3 years broke up with me then begged me to take her back so I did, and guess what? Three months later she broke up with me. The best thing you can do right now is to stop contacting her or at least limit it incredibly. You need to focus on school and your sports, i know cause i played college football. When you stop contacting her she will start to wonder whats going on with you. You need to get her to miss you and to realize what life will be like for her without you in it. She will probably come back but maybe its not the best thing to take her back. cheers 1
John194 Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 Dude I'm in a similar situation. Me and my girl argued over her friend a few times cause he friend was really weird and a couple other things. Nothing crazy like calling each other names. Then we got into a mundane argument over where to park and she just up and went to her moms house and now shes just down there and not even contacting me. Dude honestly just chill with your friends or family and get some pizza or some **** and focus on studying. Maybe one of the girls in your class likes you dude. You could get her number. If not just to hang with somebody you know. Like screw it dude and dont even try to bang this new girl just act like you dont even care. Rub one out its the champagne of victory as i like to say. It hurts i'm hurting to man; my lady left me bro and now its like wtf is goin on. 1
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