RachR Posted April 8, 2013 Posted April 8, 2013 (edited) You know, I personally wouldn't have advised apologizing to her after getting that phone call. What she had her friend do was completely uncalled for and crazy, I don't care what you did. You only went out with her on a meet and greet that one time. NUTS. If she acted like a sane person, I would say call and apologize all the way. Edited April 8, 2013 by RachR 1
RachR Posted April 8, 2013 Posted April 8, 2013 (edited) Another thing. You have a different kind of job than most people do. You accidentally forgot about her, just some girl you met once that you had tentative plans with. That sucks and it's not ok to do that in general, but can we talk about context here people? Some of you act like what he did is the equivalent to someone getting going out all night, getting hungover, sleeping all day and waking up to go, "Oh s***, that's right...I had that lunch date." That said: OP, girls ...heck people, aren't going to ever take to kindly to being forgotten about (although not go nuts like this one did). Edited April 8, 2013 by RachR
Author SmokeRat Posted April 8, 2013 Author Posted April 8, 2013 I'm always for trying to make a situation right, even if I am being wronged. While I am angry that I was called all those things, I can relate to the fact that she felt hurt, and lashed out. Mature? No. Understandable? To a point. But I've always been one to try and take the higher ground, because I did make a mistake and I'll own up to that.
RachR Posted April 8, 2013 Posted April 8, 2013 (edited) I'm always for trying to make a situation right, even if I am being wronged. While I am angry that I was called all those things, I can relate to the fact that she felt hurt, and lashed out. Mature? No. Understandable? To a point. But I've always been one to try and take the higher ground, because I did make a mistake and I'll own up to that. I don't think people should "take the higher ground" with abusive people. They should just cut them off. Just my POV Edit* Ok I'm being a little black and white. But anyway, just as long as you have healthy boundaries, that's all. Edited April 8, 2013 by RachR
dave33 Posted April 8, 2013 Posted April 8, 2013 I dont get it. Fool of the year, That's the point here, you won't "get it" unless your in a profession like us.
thefooloftheyear Posted April 8, 2013 Posted April 8, 2013 Fool of the year, That's the point here, you won't "get it" unless your in a profession like us. Yeah, whatever..I dont get it..you're right,...sheesh..
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