lastresort Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 All though she (EX) says she doesnt want a relationship right now, she invited me out to dinner with friends last night. I showed up late, just at the end of dinner, then we headed over to listen to a live band, they sucked by the way. We hung out she danced with her girlfriends I sat back and drank water and talked with the guys. They all asked me what was going on with us. I just let them know that i was going with the flow. Went back to her house came home in the early hours of the morning. She calls me at 7:00 to see what i was up to for the day. I had a meeting at the office then church. She was going to church to help with communion today then she had to go to a brunch party at a friends house, she wanted me to go but she only RSVP'd for her. No worries, had to get my garden planted any ways. We did go to the farmers market where she grabbed my hand and held it and kept kissing me. I did not mention reconciliation at all. Just went with the flow. She told me how her dad is taking her off of his car insurance and wanting her to start paying rent. She lived with me for free, my home is just about paid for and the mortgage is $1100.00 so i never asked for $$. I think he is trying to show her that she made an irrational decision of moving back into his house. I love her and her son with all of my heart it felt really good that she was holding my hand and giving me the affection again. I know she is confused on what she wants right now. I think i am just going to go along for the ride and see where it goes... Wish me luck!!!
richard9 Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 Good luck! And dont be used, im not suggesting those are her intentions but it does seem like a bit of a coincidence, or perhaps she was just telling you her troubles and happy you were there to listen, perhaps this is why she was so forward and in her mind there was no suggestion of reconciliation. Keep your guard up my friend and avoid reading into things unless the words come out of her mouth. If they do then thats another matter... Good luck!
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