Need Some Assistance

[Steve10775]

My ex girlfriend and I (I'm 37, she's 30) dated for 3 months and she ended it over the phone on Sunday night. I’ll call her my ex girlfriend, de facto girlfriend, woman I was seeing (she didn't want to label us, even though we were both exclusive), whatever you want to call her. As far as having fun, getting to know each other, how compatible we were, we were fine. Over the course of last weekend, she introduced me to her best friend and husband, we had dinner together, I really hit it off with them and we had a great time. Last Saturday, she and I spent the day together, with dinner and a movie at the end, and we made love twice. Since Sunday was Easter we parted ways quickly to be with our families, but sent text messages back and forth as per the usual. The last text message she sent me, 10 minutes before she called to end it was, "Awww sweetie, I love your kisses and I want a lot more of them!" Then when she called, she said she wasn't feeling what she thought she should be after seeing me for 3 months, and when I asked her why she couldn't tell me. Then she threw in that she thought I talked too much and that there was no way I could change that, which I thought was kind of strange. She started to cry, and when I asked why she said it was because she was used to having me around and was upset that I wouldn't be anymore, and also because she was upset over being mean to me when I didn't deserve it after how good I had been to her. When I asked her if she was sure if she wanted to end it, she said "I don't know!!" We haven't spoken or texted since we ended the call on Sunday, and she left it as waiting a while and then seeing if we want to be friends, talk on the phone, and see each other as friends. Do you think I'll hear from her again? Should I reach out to her? Does it make sense to tell her how I really feel about her and see if she'll reconsider? Also, do the circumstances over what transpired during the previous weekend seem odd or strange? Thanks everyone, I appreciate any feedback!

[Bigcitydreamer]

Sorry you are going through this. It sucks big time! In my opinion I probably wouldn't reach out in this circumstance because she said she wasn't feeling what she thought she should for you.. It seems like most reconciliations are possible when there is still a strong feeling of love there from both partners. I don't believe most reconciliations work in the first place but I doubt this one would. If you cannot move on without contacting her then go ahead. What really do you have to lose? But be warned, I don't think you will get a response from her that you would like. Good luck and chin up.