Highschool Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 (edited) I don't think I need to talk about the situation TOO much.. well maybe I do... let's summarize! --- Long story short: -I got really close to this girl -We danced all night at some school dance, had a great time -Got her number and we were always texting/talking, we were always together, etc. People thought we were getting involved. -Asked her to a movie with just her and I -She was all excited, her parents said she could go but her dad was driving -Talked a bit about the relationship thing, she said she really liked me a lot, but she didn't think we had time to start anything but wished we did. (She's a 4th degree black belt in taekwondo, art lessons, ~95% average in school, figure skater, and there's more I'm forgetting... She's basically a socially awkward overachiver lol) Made a date for the movie though, it was still on and she was really excited and into going. -One night something changed. She was all hostile towards me the next day, cut me off, and since then she blew up on me twice over gibberish imo. We haven't talked in 3 months. -Everyone says she overreacted and I didn't do anything to make her upset, and that it was probably external factors. -However, I just talked to a mutual friend (she had no idea what was going on), and she talked to her and was told that she doesn't want to talk to me atm. The mutual friend told me to just give it some time, but we'll make up eventually. She also said she gets really stressed out and gets kinda crazy sometimes like that. Her parents are super controlling, she's not a foreigner or anything but imagine those typical foreign Asian parents that say "School is the most important thing in your life, work HARDER". They push her crazily, she's really stressed out 24/7 and I think that they blew up on her and told her to cut me off. It's happened before, apparently, although she's never been in a relationship/casual dating or anything. --- Prom is coming up, we had planned to go together and were all excited. Obviously that's not the case now, I'm going with a group of guy friends. Some girl asked me to be her date and I told her that I was just planning to go stag but that I was flattered. HOWEVER, here's the thing: I've been getting looks from the drama-girl like she wants to talk (over the past week). Prom tickets are being sold starting tomorrow. So if she doesn't have a date, I'm afraid she'll try to come back to me. If she does, or if we don't talk until prom, I'm afraid we'll be just actively trying to avoid each other the whole time. ^ The girl that asked me to be her date is also drama-girl's enemy, so drama-girl might try to get with me now because she knows that that other girl is into me... chicks are ****ed up like that sometimes. :/ --- What do I do? But yeah, there's been other girls, there will be other girls, and she's not right for me AT ALL. Just that I've never been in a situation like this before, I ALWAYS clear things up with people. Edited April 7, 2013 by Highschool
Author Highschool Posted April 7, 2013 Author Posted April 7, 2013 I shortened the first post a bit. I'd really appreciate a response!
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