Gruesome Posted April 10, 2013 Posted April 10, 2013 I would describe her as the girl I would have married and been happy with forever. Pretty much from day one when I first met her its how I felt. 2
wrongturns Posted April 10, 2013 Posted April 10, 2013 He was a 10/10 and I had no reason to break up with him 1
Infnitysign Posted April 10, 2013 Posted April 10, 2013 Yeah I thought she was my first and my last, but I didnt love myself enough in the relationship and I was insecure so she broke up with me so I could get my **** straight
Harradin Posted April 10, 2013 Posted April 10, 2013 I would describe her as the girl I would have married and been happy with forever. Pretty much from day one when I first met her its how I felt. Ditto tbh.
singme2sleep Posted April 10, 2013 Posted April 10, 2013 Yeah I thought she was my first and my last, but I didnt love myself enough in the relationship and I was insecure so she broke up with me so I could get my **** straight Sounds just like my situation. Only he broke things off, I wanted to be there to support him but he just wasn't happy with himself.
TheBladeRunner Posted April 10, 2013 Posted April 10, 2013 The more time I spend away the more clarity I get. In this new found "clearness" I have come to realize that I was not happy when I was with her for quite some time. It didn't have to be this way but it is that way. I am moving on nicely and have reached what I refer to as "Ex-Nirvana"......complete indifference.
SharkTooth Posted April 10, 2013 Posted April 10, 2013 I was happy, yes. I was happy to be sharing life with someone who I loved, respected, and cared for. Clarity is pretty cool and easy to achieve after some time has past when you look back. I did all I could do to make her happy which in turn made me happy. I've always tried to be a happy person and pretty much don't sweat the small stuff. I'm known as an incredibly laid back guy to my close friends. So it's second nature trying to make just about any circumstance a happy one. I owe that to my doctor who told me I may not live through the weekend some years ago. Near death has a funny effect on a person. In the end she did me a favor. Do I think we could have made it if we worked on it. Maybe if she would have communicated better. But I honestly believe that guessing on hypothetical situations, although vital to the heal, has to be the dumbest thing we all do here at LS. 1
INTJ Posted April 14, 2013 Posted April 14, 2013 I was extremely happy--like I can marry this guy happy. But then his Ex popped back up. He had confused feelings for us both. So I ended it. I'm torn over it and it hurts deeply because I miss him so much. But at the end of the day, I couldn't devalue myself to accept being someone's choice based on a pros and cons list. He was emotionally unavailable and I accepted that and told him to resolve his feelings with his Ex. Although, I secretly want him to realize how great of a woman I am and get over his Ex so we can pick back up where we left off. Lol....In the meantime, I'm not waiting around. If he's going to catch me, it better be before someone else snatches me up.
LoveB86 Posted April 15, 2013 Posted April 15, 2013 I was blindsided because I was happy with him and did not see this breakup/needing space coming. He was cheating on me behind my back but I was the one spending the time with him more. It was like he liked 2 women and found it hard to juggle both so it became "out with the old and in with the new" sorta speak. Now theyre happily in love and official of 2 weeks. I never did see this train wreck coming or I would of hopped my as$ off that train and took a cab. If only I knew.... I would of been in a better place right now, but nope, I got ignored, NCed by this dude with a "see you later, I got my gf to be with". I will never ever love again
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