richard9 Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 found out today through a mutual friend that she is still hanging around with her 'friends' and out and about with them. they were the choice she made over us, i thought she may have regretted her choice and have parted from them, seems she is still meeting up with them, going out, and doing whatever it is that single girls do. kind of reinforces that they still mean more to her now than i ever meant to her, i know one day she will feel bad for what she did to me, i guess while she is out 'enjoying' herself that regret will not come. i dont really wish her to feel bad, i just want a realisation of what she did to me, and what she lost, perhaps it will never come. saying that, even if it did i want nothing to do with her, just want her to realise what she lost.
steveT95 Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 I'm sorry, man, but that's it. Five months on and she is still hanging out with them? Sounds to me that she made the right choice for herself. Selfish towards you, yes. But for her personally it was the right choice. Time to move on from her.
Author richard9 Posted April 7, 2013 Author Posted April 7, 2013 I'm sorry, man, but that's it. Five months on and she is still hanging out with them? Sounds to me that she made the right choice for herself. Selfish towards you, yes. But for her personally it was the right choice. Time to move on from her. Appreciate your honesty! Its sad to know as I know most of her friends go out drinking, dress like prostitutes, chase guys and the only thing they have in their lives is gossip about others, who they know, who they've seen with who etc etc when we were together she had ambitions and goals. As you say it was her choice to make and if shes happier (or not) why should I care. Will keep moving on!
steveT95 Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 It can hurt when the ex changes. Mine had no motivation then made plans for the future as we broke up (as well as spurting out that with out me she didn't think she could do it.) Just remembered they can do what they want, they aren't ours anymore. 1
Author richard9 Posted April 7, 2013 Author Posted April 7, 2013 It can hurt when the ex changes. Mine had no motivation then made plans for the future as we broke up (as well as spurting out that with out me she didn't think she could do it.) Just remembered they can do what they want, they aren't ours anymore. True, if she wants to get with a guy who is only after one thing, who only sees her as a piece of meat, who couldnt care less about her, not who she is inside, the beauty of her personality and soul, then yes its her choice. And if she wants to end up doing nothing in her life, running around like life is like Jersey Shore, with no focus on real love, a real relationship, a career that doesnt involve beauty therapy lol, and go from guy to guy like its all one big game, then yes its her choice. Forgive the sarcastic rant lol you are quite right and thanks for the replies!
RogerWallace111 Posted April 8, 2013 Posted April 8, 2013 Appreciate your honesty! Its sad to know as I know most of her friends go out drinking, dress like prostitutes, chase guys and the only thing they have in their lives is gossip about others, who they know, who they've seen with who etc etc when we were together she had ambitions and goals. As you say it was her choice to make and if shes happier (or not) why should I care. Will keep moving on! ain't nothin new under the sun
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