venuss Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 I had this dream couple of weeks back that we were happy and together. I did not think a lot about it but couldn't let go of the feeling either. Last night I had a very passionate dream, my head is full of fantasies ever since. All these feelings make it hard to let go. It is not easy to distract myself from all these thoughts. I feel like I am craving for him, and its him who filled my head with all this. I am usually not desperate types.
OwlSoul Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 You start seeing those dreams when you think too much about your ex. So I guess, the best way is to start thinking about something else.
richard9 Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 i actually started out like this, and then the strangest thing happened, i still had dreams about her, but the bad things about her and how she treated me towards the end started to happen in the dream. i woke up one morning after a dream where she treated my like absolute **** and thought how lucky i was to be out of it!! really reaffirming! dont dwell on dreams so much, they are generally beyond our control and there's nothing we can do about them. i hope with time that your dreams start to reflect what she did to you a little more accurately... when you think of her try stopping the thought process of the good times and insert bad. will help you either way imo.
sweetjess1951 Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 I had a dream about mine last night. His family was trying to get us back together because they knew how much he missed me. They invited me to a party they were throwing. When we saw each other, we hugged and kissed. I felt so much love and passion from my dream. I was pretty sad when I woke up.
LoveB86 Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 My nightmare last night was basically where he left me: alone It was a dream that he took me to his friends house. He was ready to go and so he left the house to go to his car. I was still in the house saying goodbye to everyone and he called me twice to tell me to lets go. As soon as I walked outside, his car was nowhere to be found. He left me and in reality: he left me and ignored me. It was so sad that my body woke me up immediately. It was like someone picked me up and shook me out of it before it got any worse.
CorridorE Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 Dreams are the worst... I have beautiful dreams about my ex almost every night that instantly turn into nightmares when I wake up. But I also used to have dreams like that when I was with my ex, about a PREVIOUS ex. They were strange, but when I woke up I wasn't fazed at all because I was over him. It's strange the way your dreams work, and it's horrible right now, but just focus on moving on in your life and then the dreams will trouble you less and less.
Author venuss Posted April 7, 2013 Author Posted April 7, 2013 I think dreams make all this getting over part a little more challenging! So I was reminding myself that it was just a dream and one of my uncle on FB wished me '<message>....may all your dreams come true' . Exactly what I wanted to hear
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