Sorelab93 Posted April 6, 2013 Posted April 6, 2013 Hello, im new here and i just want to tell you my story. me and my ex gf broke up in january after 2 years and 6 months. she broke up with me when she was in Afrika. she was there in almost 2 months. She told me that she looked at me as a friend and we dont worked out anymore. i was i shock because weeks before she left to afrika everything seems normal. and when she was down there i asked her if she lost feelings for me cuz she stopped contacting me. she said no. blabla. and then after 3 weeks without me she said that she dont love me anymore. i was devistated and agreed the break up. but deep inside im dying. i stopped talking to her for 3 weeks. after 3 weeks i send her message and asked if she is doing ok. she said she is doing fine and wonder if im doing great. when she came back from africa we met each other and talk about things. she said she was happy to see me and that she miss me. i felt that connection again. she said that she dont know what her feeling r and she needs to find herself and need time to improv her herself. and then i just gave up everything. started NC. But after a week my friend did something on FB. he changed my status from single to in a relationship. and my ex gf send me a message " nice that it was so easy to get over me " waited to days to answered. we suposed to go to the movie on tuesday next week but i met her yesterday while i was soing home from the pub and we sat together and talked. she said that i know where her feeling are and that she dont want me to have hope for getting back! we argued and i told her that im done for good and ive done everything. when we broke up my life changed. i realize so much. It made me to a better person. i was selfish and when this happened i started talking care of other and srated helping them. i tried to show her that i can changed. all of my friend and family said that i became to a better person but im showing my ex gf that i can change and that i can really be the guy i she felt inlove. what shopuld i do? I have not managed to stick to no contact since I feel I need to talk to her so that she does not lose all Vital Point she has for me. I really do not know what I should do more. shpuld i just give up? anyone out there who can help me? sorry for my english btw!
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