calledm Posted April 6, 2013 Posted April 6, 2013 My girlfriend dumped me after 3 and a half years. One month later I discovered she was dating someone else, and two weeks later she told me that was a coworker that started to flirt with her and due to my lack of attention she started to feel something and decided to pursue him (no cheating). That was two months ago. We have seen each other 3 times, and she has kissed me every time, and has told me that she is not serious about this guy. She has called me a few times and she has got fed up if I didn't speak for long with her. So I have decided to break up our friendship and go to NC. She tells me her heart is hurt and due to the attachment she cannot be with him or with me or anyone else in a while, but she is still dating this guy but they only see each other once or twice a week. She has told me she loves me but she is not in love anymore but because all her movements I don't know what to think. What do you think about this??? Thank you!!!
soccerrprp Posted April 6, 2013 Posted April 6, 2013 My girlfriend dumped me after 3 and a half years. One month later I discovered she was dating someone else, and two weeks later she told me that was a coworker that started to flirt with her and due to my lack of attention she started to feel something and decided to pursue him (no cheating). That was two months ago. We have seen each other 3 times, and she has kissed me every time, and has told me that she is not serious about this guy. She has called me a few times and she has got fed up if I didn't speak for long with her. So I have decided to break up our friendship and go to NC. She tells me her heart is hurt and due to the attachment she cannot be with him or with me or anyone else in a while, but she is still dating this guy but they only see each other once or twice a week. She has told me she loves me but she is not in love anymore but because all her movements I don't know what to think. What do you think about this??? Thank you!!! Calledm, She is full of @$#%^! She loves you, but continues to see someone else??????????????! Come on! Come on! Move on!
SendHope Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 My girlfriend dumped me after 3 and a half years. One month later I discovered she was dating someone else, and two weeks later she told me that was a coworker that started to flirt with her and due to my lack of attention she started to feel something and decided to pursue him (no cheating). That was two months ago. We have seen each other 3 times, and she has kissed me every time, and has told me that she is not serious about this guy. She has called me a few times and she has got fed up if I didn't speak for long with her. So I have decided to break up our friendship and go to NC. She tells me her heart is hurt and due to the attachment she cannot be with him or with me or anyone else in a while, but she is still dating this guy but they only see each other once or twice a week. She has told me she loves me but she is not in love anymore but because all her movements I don't know what to think. What do you think about this??? Thank you!!! Dating someone else while in a relationship is cheating to me. It's best to cut her off your life and stick to the NC. Her "movements" is probably just a way to keep you around the vicinity incase her new love doesn't work out. I'm sorry that this happened to you. 1
witmadskilllz Posted April 7, 2013 Posted April 7, 2013 I question her integrity because one does not simply 'date' without any emotional attachment or feelings toward the individual, and if there are any of that sort, hence she emotionally cheated on you. How do you feel now?
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